What do women think about dolls? (see links)

[Mish]

I don't think I could ever be married to someone who had an incompatible sex drive to me. I've been with a girl like that once, she was hot, but no thanks it's not worth the trouble.

[Prefix]

If you want something more than just your hand, and you can't get your wife to put out more, just buy a fleshlight. I don't own one myself, but I've heard they're great, and it's infinitely less silly than a sex doll. Plus it's customizable / upgradable! =P

[lastwish]

Wow...they look pretty real.

[Lulu]

What if after- you forgot and started talking to it? That would make it even creepier. It's creepy- wierd- all the way around. I would never try to have intercourse with a fake dude! Ugh. I would worry about my mental well being....

[bluesummer]

I'm not down with those creepy dolls.

I watched a show where there were these lonely men that viewed their RealDolls as actual partners. They gave them names, bought them different outfits for different occasions, even drove around with them sitting in the passenger seat of their car.

Incognito, I still think you need to solidly address this issue with your wife, it's not worth this. It would probably be cheaper to divorce her and to go have healthy normal sex with a real woman with some kind of sex drive than it would be to buy one of those things.

[sookie6]

I know this thread is about dolls but coming back to the issue of sex with your wife: I thought refusal to engage in a physical relationship with your husband was valid ground for annulment of mariage or divorce...?

[Incognito]

Maybe you should figure out why your wife doesn't wanta have sex...tell her you really need more and talk to her...I mean if physically she doesn't enjoy sex then try to figure out why she isn't and how you two can help her to enjoy it....or if she just doesn't have the want to then figure out if you can get her something to help with that....is she medicated on anything? Sometimes that can drop a sex drive....but if that doesn't work well then I don't know what to tell you...I'm sorry I suppose.

Plus do you really think she is gonna let you spend 7000.00 just to get off...I mean hell you can use your damn hand and do it for free....thats just not sound economics my friend...plus what does it do when your not screwing it? Its just a 7000.00 piece of plastic laying about waiting for you to violate it....I say buy something that you use more and just try to talk your wife into puttin out more.

Well I call the shots with the money since I pay all of the bills. That's not to say that I'd be quick to spend $7000.00 on a sex toy though (doll or not). No she doesn't take any medications or anything like that. She just hasn't had a sex drive since we got married. Since I want to avoid cross posting I'll ask you to go to the 'Ask a female' section and look for the thread titled 'My wife has no sex drive, what can I do?'. I laughed hard when you said "....piece of plastic laying around waiting for you to violate it"

If you want something more than just your hand, and you can't get your wife to put out more, just buy a fleshlight. I don't own one myself, but I've heard they're great, and it's infinitely less silly than a sex doll. Plus it's customizable / upgradable! =P

I purchased a fleshlight back in 2005 or 2006. It was good at the time, but I outgrew it. I actually still have it, but I rarely use it. I use silicone toys made in Japan now. I own many of the ones found at [url=http://utensil-race.com]Offical Utensil Race Site - Buy Japanese Male Sex Toys & Masturbators - Discreet Packaging & Free Delivery Worldwide[/url]. Six to be exact, but that doesn't include the others.

I'm not down with those creepy dolls.

I watched a show where there were these lonely men that viewed their RealDolls as actual partners. They gave them names, bought them different outfits for different occasions, even drove around with them sitting in the passenger seat of their car.

Incognito, I still think you need to solidly address this issue with your wife, it's not worth this. It would probably be cheaper to divorce her and to go have healthy normal sex with a real woman with some kind of sex drive than it would be to buy one of those things.

Dolls with names, and outfits? Driving around with them? That is....um....I don't really know what to say about that. I find it disturbing though. - Your divorce solution answered below-

I know this thread is about dolls but coming back to the issue of sex with your wife: I thought refusal to engage in a physical relationship with your husband was valid ground for annulment of mariage or divorce...?

Refusal probably IS grounds for divorce, but since she no longer refuses there are no grounds. Like I said in the other thread, she will let me have sex with her, but she doesn't want to. It makes me feel like a f*cking rapist to have sex with someone knowing that they don't want to be with me.

[vashti]

Aren't you the guy with a gazillion sex toys? Honestly, your preoccupation with them is a little disturbing. Maybe your wife is turned off by them all. I definitely would be.

[Incognito]

As far as she knows I don't have any. I also don't know why you'd be disturbed by me having sex toys either. The difference between a hand and a toy is cost and improved sensation. Also I may have given the wrong impression concerning the number of toys I have because I stated the total price of them all. In total I have 11. The cheapest being $19.00 and the most expensive being $800.00. I do what I have to do. What's so disturbing about that? I'd think that the average woman would be more disturbed by finding her husband in bed with another woman than finding sex toys (which she hasn't found and won't).

[vashti]

Ahh, you are right. It was the 1200 videos that creeped me out. That's a LOT of porn, or at least it seems like it to me. It suggests an obsessional issue, at least to me. And even paying $800 for a sex toy seems .... blah.

[misombra]

bsummer is talking about guys and dolls lol...

[url=http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-7277801797935788405&ei=lK1-S4WOIpqqrAPNuoGgBw&q=guys+and+dolls&hl=en&client=f irefox-a#]Psychology – “Guys & Dolls”[/url]

[Incognito]

To be clear I had almost 1000 individual videos on an external hard drive. The rest were DVDs. I didn't have 1200 DVDs, as that wole have been impossible to conceal. Also, that was the the most I owned, ever. 1200 DVDs sitting around does sound a bit overboard. I had one external hard drive and a CD case that held the DVDs. Doesn't sound so bad now does it? Thats done and over with though. Now I own zero porn videos/pictures. I'm rather proud of that fact.

[Incognito]

I didn't watch the whole thing because it was so long. I skipped around. I think I was most disturbed by the guy who lives with his parents and has an imaginary relationship with his doll. I could never do that, even if I tried with all my might and used every bit of imagination I have.

[Gigabitch]

Whatever the substitute, you seem to have a lot of them. A doll would just be one more and would be virtually impossible to conceal.

Have you ever had a healthy sexual relationship with a human being?

[dewilliams2]

Okay your wife says that she will have sex with you but she doesn't enjoy it and you feel bad about that...you both have some things you need to talk about. You need to figure out why she doesn't enjoy sex and you need to figure out why you have such a preoccupation with masturbation.

I'm not saying there is anything wrong with masturbation...its normal....but an 800.00 toy. I mean it just isn't worth it to me...I bet you could talk your wife into do some pretty interesting stuff for a lot less than that...I'm sure she has her eye on some shoes or jewelry....she'd know what to spend the money on and you'd be havin sex.

I really think you need to talk to her about it...I mean I don't wanta get to personal and you don't have to answer but is she having an orgasm?

And honestly the porn thing isn't that weird I don't guess to me, I dated a girl who collected porn and probably had that much...she was a lot of fun...kinda crazy...but a lot of fun.