Mid-life crisis, thinking about divorce

[smackie9]

Keep going to therapy, hopefully you will know the best direction to take, and how to approach it.

[michelle23]

Nowhere did I say "all" divorced people. From what I have seen and read-its a lot more complicated and I wouldnt choose that for myself if my marriage could be saved. A lot of people walk straight from the frying pan into the fire coz they make a rash, impulsive decision based on infatuation or an emotional affair and end up a lot worse off or alone-having lost everything for nothing.

I dont want OP to do anything he may regret. He has to be sure

[Debaser]

Nowhere did I say "all" divorced people. From what I have seen and read-its a lot more complicated and I wouldnt choose that for myself if my marriage could be saved. A lot of people walk straight from the frying pan into the fire coz they make a rash, impulsive decision based on infatuation or an emotional affair and end up a lot worse off or alone-having lost everything for nothing.

I dont want OP to do anything he may regret. He has to be sure

Thanks, Michelle. FWIW, I didn't find anything wrong with your replies. I came here to get a variety of perspectives so all responses are greatly appreciated.