How to go about contacting?

[Zanderini]

ive given her space i sent her facebook friend request and got i do not want to talk to you and do not consider you a friend in the real world and certianly not in the cyber one goodbye

[cmacattack1]

That's not giving her space.

Giving her space is completely disappearing off the face of the earth. Not friend requesting. None of that. You pushed her to the point where she doesn't want to speak to you. Cut your losses, she's as good as gone to you.

[Supernova]

You need to leave her be. It could be considered stalking if she has said never contact me again. Move on. You will be hurting yourself over and over again when you hear rejecting you. Take it from me, its taken me weeks to get it into my head. When my ex can honestly say he has changed and I see it, then I will talk to him.

[cmacattack1]

The tricky part about that means he still has to contact her and say "I've changed". And usually the people that do that haven't changed at all. That's a trap and she won't buy it.

She has to want to talk to you and see if you changed. It's not likely, especially anytime soon. Just as long as you know it's clear.

You gotta take her out of the picture here for a good, long time.

[ricerocket1]

cma is right, you don't contact her unless your really really sure that there's nothing there. i recently contacted my ex after 4 month ish of NC. i don't feel the same anymore and i miss her as a friend and nothing else after going back and forth of texting in a day i haven't texted her since...

[Zanderini]

im to that point i replied to her rude message and i could care less what happens from here on out i dont need to waste my time. if she ever wants to get in contact with me that is her deal. Although i do honestly miss her as a friend