Confidence is good DT, swagger? Well, I'm not so sure. You're on the comeback trail, but I'm sensing some laid back networking might work more efficiently than going out with some cock blocking friends.
Confidence is good DT, swagger? Well, I'm not so sure. You're on the comeback trail, but I'm sensing some laid back networking might work more efficiently than going out with some cock blocking friends.
MVP: Thanks for the response. For what its worth I called her the multiple times the night we met, apparently my buddy and I were trying to track her and her friend down. Then I belligerently texted her some random sh*t. The only message I left was 2 days later, to which she responded with several texts.....for what its worth.
ANYWAYS... yeah I for sure got over eager and will be playing it differently in the future. Since I now know I've got the ability to pull very attractive women, I'll have to get used to it. I'm not trying to sound cocky btw.
Primo: Yeah I've been listening to more hip hop lately so "swagger" got across what I was trying to say...that attitude...ya know?
I've been doing some laid back networking with regards to meeting new women, and I've been staying out of the friend zone with all of them. It's just a matter of going out with them and taking it to the next level. Right now it's more fun to go out with my friends and party as opposed to going on a potentially boring date with some chick just to get laid. Not sure if that makes sense.
Again I appreciate the responses.
I think you've learned whatever it is you needed to on this one. You'll do fine in the future. As long you learn from your mistakes it's not a failure.
***UPDATE***
Saturday night I texted her asking her what she was getting into. She replied that she was sick and she would not be going out. I told her "well I guess I'll have to top last Saturday night without you then!"
"haha, have fun" is what she sent back Sat night.
I texted her again on Sunday, I'm bored at work so I'll type them all out.
Me "Hope you're feeling better!
Her: Thanks Slowly but surely. How was your night?
Me: It was good, went downtown with a bunch of people again.
Her: Since you're texting me the next day I take it no hotties??? lol
Her: Tho I'm glad you did
Me: lol...no hotties last night
Her: lol wow I feel so special
Me: You need to get well so you can come out and be the hottie on my arm again....best time I had in a while last sat!
Her: Believe me its been 4 days of laying around the house and I'm bored
Me: I'm sorry. Wish I could just make you feel better! If you need anything let me know.
Her: Aw thanks hun But I dont wanna get you sick before I even get to hang out with you!
Me: Yeah I def don't want to get sick I'm looking forward to hanging out again tho.
SOOOOO Maybe I didn't ruin my chances! It sure seems like I didn't after that conversation.
wow looks like progress
Keep us updated~
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I am no expert, take everything I say with a large grain of salt.
Yeah, you def shouldn't have hit her up that much. So back off for now. Maybe your dude will smash it, but he sounds like a dirtball. Just cuz a dude has game and is good looking, a smart girl will see through his exterior down to the dirt inside. If she's looking for a good guy, she will come back to you. If she's dumb, she'll allow herself to be added to your buddy's long and disgusting list. Time will tell... so just be patient and don't get that hung up ever again!
Lol, yeah he might smash...and he's definitely a PROUD dirtball....like lets it be known. I'm not too concerned anymore though. I texted this girl yesterday to say whatup and she didnt say sh*t back.
Like I said I'm not concerned, if she's into it she'll come around. I've got others I'm working on so its cool.
Update: (if anyone cares)
So this girl and I have been texting back and forth every 2 or 3 days or so, usually initiated by me. I had thought she figured I was a "player" or a dirtbag, and I made it known that I'm not a dirtball and that I'm a good guy just trying to have fun after a long relationship. Her response to that confirmed my suspicions.
Anyways after I got that out of the way 2 nights ago, she initiated a text with me (which she had never done besides the night we first met) She came out of her shell wanting to flirt and she finally was like " call me if you want". I called her and we talked for 3 hours 'til 3:00 a.m. We talked about everything and she really opened up to me, so I did to her as well. We talked about relationships and she was saying things like "you'll see that I'm very strong willed" for example, and basically just things eluding to us spending time together/hanging out.
I was about to delete this girls number like 3 days ago....glad I didnt. Persistence pays I guess. This girl is sooo freaking hot and might just make me forget about my ex!!!
Last edited by Dogtoast; 30-01-10 at 04:13 AM.
Wow. You have the tenacity of a pit bull. Good for you, Dogtoast!
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