Also, I hate to even mention this and I don't condone this kind of behaviour but one of my old mates in England used to chat to girls less attractive than him early in the night for confidence, he used to call them training wheels. Nothing too much btw just chatting, buy a drink, have a laugh or a dance, its actually fun and you are just meeting and chatting but they'll often be keen on you, it can change your perspective and give you confidence and practise. Having said that the way I feel right now if i got burnt by a girl who was "training wheels" I'd feel like shit. Next time you go to a bar, chat to a girl who is worse looking than you and then one that's way better looking than you and check out the difference. Ugly girl wants to have your baby and hot girl wants you arrested.