As attractive as a fiery woman can be... in more ways than one... it's also taxing in some regards.
How long do you want to argue... and what price are you willing to pay for being right on a public forum that really doesn't matter?
You think she's ugly... others don't... opinions stated. Seems simple enough to me.
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
- James Allen