Why does this always happen to me

[MastaPDiddy]

MastaPDiddy: I think it is time for this thread to die!!! It sucks!!

No I don't agree.

This is an ongoing situation and things are changing rapidly. I'm not going to start a new thread everytime something changes. so until the matter is resolved....which could take up to 9 days...this thread is going to stay alive.

[Rosebud]

lol... I wasn't yelling at you Masta..Just trying to get my point accross which I did!

Alright well look. I truly think she's being genuine right now. So your options are very few and far between. You can either keep going the way you are and take the chance that things may happen and she may leave you for her ex.
OR
You could just get out now, instead fo waiting to find out what might happen.

At least she's being honest about all this stuff. And I can see this is hard but these are the only options I see you having!

[Mish]

(Prepares beer and popcorn in advance for when va(shh!)ti goes to war...)

[vashti]

LOL! I'm not going to war; I just can't believe this thread has gone on for 11 pages! Wake me when it's over...

[MastaPDiddy]

LOL! I'm not going to war; I just can't believe this thread has gone on for 11 pages! Wake me when it's over...

Well is there a problem with threads that go on for 11 pages?

Like I said, this thread was made because of a specific situation. Let it go on for as long as it needs to, at the very least I feel comforted by other member's insights and opinions. If it bothers you, I have a simple solution.

Don't click the link.

I kindly ask you not to wish death upon my thread again.

[Tone]

What the... okay dude, it's time to stop playin around.

Simple question: "So you say you miss me, love me so much... but... you say there is a chance you would get back with your ex if he got your trust back... then... why, exactly, are you talking to him and giving him every opportunity TO get your trust back?"

It almost seems as if she WANTS him to get her trust back by allowing him to talk to her.. I mean what the hell other reason could there be?

Ugh - stupid girls. CONFRONT her about this shit, it's ridiculous she sits there and says all this shit to you, then keeps talkin to her ex after what she said.

[vashti]

I kindly ask you not to wish death upon my thread again.

I wish death upon this thread yet again.


(Sorry, I couldn't resist.)

[misombra]

[vashti]

[MastaPDiddy]

no thread, don't die.

ok so i asked her all the questions you suggested.

Here is what i got

"I am very happy with you and i would never leave you to be with him, but you have to understand that he was my ex of 3 years and even though you make me happoer than he ever has....the fact that he is putting up a fight kind of appeals to me, he never used to put up a fight for me. Yes, in the future if you and i are no longer together and he somehow manages to gain my trust then I may consider going back to him. But you have to understand that it takes alot to regain my trust if you lose, so he has to pull off a miracle before i even consider it. But stop thinking about this, i love you more than ive ever loved him, and i want to be with you, forever"

what to make of this?

[vashti]

what to make of this?

She's crazy. Now:

[whaywardj]

...I wonder if relationships aren't in a constant state of negotiation anyhow?

Aha! The answer is revealed.

[MastaPDiddy]

She's crazy. Now:

What?

thats of no help.

[Junsui]

Now stop asking her about it before you push her to him because you keep questioning whether she will stay with you or not.

[vashti]

What?

thats of no help.

Sorry, bitty-diddy. i just can't help myself.