Originally Posted by
RdHrshyKss
i think the underlying issue is that she's had sex before and the guy left her afterwards. so being as immature as she is, she's trying to keep him in the relationship by stringing him along...obviously not a healthy way to get someone to stay with you. she dangles the idea of sex in front of him and NEVER follows through. i can't even remember the number of times the OP mentioned that intimacy would get to such a heated point between them that he'd be told to get a condom, to only come back to hear her say "yeah, nm, i'm not ready". and she's done this over and over again. she is teasing him. trying to get him to stay with her by dragging out the point that they finally have sex. and i'm sorry, but doing this, stringing the OP along like that for as long as she has, will only make the sex LESS enjoyable. the OP is a virgin, and i don't think his first experience will be much of a pleasurable one with this broad.
she's completely controlling him and THAT is why i suggest he dump her ass. she needs to grow up and realize that dangling sex in front of a guy like that for LONG periods of time, is not the right way to keep a relationship going. she's really ignorant in my opinion, and so is the OP for staying with her.