How many people have you slept with

[michelle23]

Anyone can beat my number. I'm a 20 year-old man that still wants to get rid of the V-card.

20 is not that old to be a virgin. Youll meet someone

[YoungCosmo]

and i am looking forward to when he finally realizes that sex wont make him feel anymore valuable so then he may go and get the therapy that he needs. he thinks a woman/women/sex will cure all his problems but needs to realize the only thing that can make him the man he wants to be is HIM

It would certainly go a long way!

[smackie9]

It can make a huge difference getting rid of yer V card...especially for a guy....it gets rid of a lot of the anxiety about having sex.....they calm right down. I have see a difference in guys for sure.

[YoungCosmo]

Anyone can beat my number. I'm a 20 year-old man that still wants to get rid of the V-card.

I'm 23, also the proud owner of a whopping sexual record of....0.

[michelle23]

it will make him feel better about himself temporarily-its a quick fix-not a cure. it wont make his insecurities or self loathing go away

[YoungCosmo]

Unless it's really good sex.

[Kavie]

23 and just 1

[michelle23]

you are promiscuous.please don't allow men to use you

um excuse me? would you say the same thing about a 25 year old guy who has been with 11 girls?

[michelle23]

yes i would, but life isn't fair, sex isn't the same for guys as it is for girls

how so? please elaborate on that? and you are not a woman so how would you know?

You are just another example of a bloke who believes every BS stereotype.

[Nightshade]

I'm 23 and have slept with 7 guys. Guess to some, I'd also be considered promiscuous!
I feel I've been pretty discerning though and would not consider MYSELF promiscuous..... No regrets over here!

[michelle23]

well ive only slept with 2 guys but I have been in a relationship since 19. If that didnt work out back then-who knows my number may be higher.. but Id never consider myself promiscuous-even if I had slept with more over the past 5 years.

Some people are unlucky in love. they could be searching for 5 years for someone good for them but end up in 5 different short term relationships. That doesnt make them promiscuous.

People who have multiple one night stands/casual sex are promiscuous.

[Nightshade]

well ive only slept with 2 guys but I have been in a relationship since 19. If that didnt work out back then-who knows my number may be higher.. but Id never consider myself promiscuous-even if I had slept with more over the past 5 years.

Some people are unlucky in love. they could be searching for 5 years for someone good for them but end up in 5 different short term relationships. That doesnt make them promiscuous.

People who have multiple one night stands/casual sex are promiscuous.

I agree! Especially with the last part...

[Nightshade]

I have had seven SEXUAL relationships, sure!

[Nightshade]

I have experienced casual sex, did not make a habit of it though.

Do you feel uncomfortable with the idea of non-committal sex, between two consenting adults? (rhetoric)

It's quite natural, in most species.

[michelle23]

its not being used if she wants to do it. an equal % of men and women are promiscious so let them at it. just like an equal % want a serious relationship.

i want a guy like me (not promiscious) and i have one. i wouldnt date someone whos been around but it doesnt affect me personally so i dont care