Casual Sex For Normal People!!

[Wakeup]

And how do you know for sure? Have you talked to every person in your class about whether they are still a virgin? And what proof do you have that they would actually tell you the truth? People tend to lie about this sort of thing quite frequently.

Oh for goodness sakes she can only go on what people (her close friends) have told her. If we use your logic then how do we know you're not lying and you're really a ball-freak who frequents escorts. Based on just looking at single mother stats it's pretty safe to say that more are NOT virgins then are.

[michelle23]

I will put up a thread here and we will ask women what they think.

[bearz]

Easy to say since you've never had "hole"

Very easy to say because that's what we honestly want and feel like. We're not making up lies or fantasies. Of course we want sex, but at this stage of our lives our priorities are different. It might be hard for you to understand where we're coming from, but only because you are not able to put yourself into our position doesn't mean what we're doing is wrong or unacceptable.

[bearz]

Oh for goodness sakes she can only go on what people (her close friends) have told her. If we use your logic then how do we know you're not lying and you're really a ball-freak who frequents escorts. Based on just looking at single mother stats it's pretty safe to say that more are NOT virgins then are.

It was blanket statement vs. blanket statement. If you can't see the other point of that argument I can't help you.

[Love'sReject]

Easy to say since you've never had "hole"

I'm not a simple, regular guy.

[michelle23]

Michelle I think the thing with you is you have a lot of good ideas and intentions but you pass them off as if they're fact, and they aren't. like yes, in the ideal world no one would be shallow or care if a guy was a virgin and it would all work out great and be full of rainbows and flowers but the hard truth is that when you get older and are a virgin, it becomes tough. more people have lost their virginity and it leaves the ones who haven't feeling alienated and inadequate, as is shown by LR. if it didn't bother him why would he come on here and make 1,000 posts about it? sure, some women probably wouldn't care and would guide the guy through and be ok with it, but there are also some who would find it a turn off and judge him differently because of it. may not be nice, may not be how the world 'should' be but it's how it is.

I agree with everything you just said there ashley apart from your sarcasm. I never said my opinion was fact. You came across earlier as someone who thinks its a big deal and all women would lose interest... all i was saying is the ALL part is not true. Everyone is different and you cannot speak for ALL women or ALL the people you went to school with.

[Wakeup]

Very easy to say because that's what we honestly want and feel like. We're not making up lies or fantasies. Of course we want sex, but at this stage of our lives our priorities are different. It might be hard for you to understand where we're coming from, but only because you are not able to put yourself into our position doesn't mean what we're doing is wrong or unacceptable.

Sorry, son but I was virgin once and I wanted to lose it to my lifemate as well so I really do know what you're talking about. Since I've been on both sides (virgin/non-virgin) it's quite easy for me to "understand." It's hard for you to understand because you're coming from this from one side only.

[ashley89]

there was no sarcasm intended there, I was being completely serious...

[bearz]

Sorry, son but I was virgin once and I wanted to lose it to my lifemate as well so I really do know what you're talking about. Since I've been on both sides (virgin/non-virgin) it's quite easy for me to "understand." It's hard for you to understand because you're coming from this from one side only.

So you were a virgin until your mid 20s or early 30s?

[Wakeup]

No, I'm too sexual to have waited that long.

[bearz]

No, I'm too sexual to have waited that long.

You cannot compare a teenager's wants and needs to someone who is in his mid 20s or early 30s.

[Wakeup]

I don't have to and I haven't been and I don't want to. Point is, you can't compare having "hole" and not having "hole" if you've never had "hole"

[ashley89]

I don't have to and I haven't been and I don't want to.

I think I'd have died by now haha. have any of you seen the movie "the 40 year old virgin"?

[Love'sReject]

I don't have to and I haven't been and I don't want to. Point is, you can't compare having "hole" and not having "hole" if you've never had "hole"

You sure can, if you're a person that can control their innate urges.

[bearz]

I don't have to and I haven't been and I don't want to.

Then you can't relate to what I am saying and you don't understand the other side of this argument. You think you do, but you don't - at least you're having a really hard time admitting it or you simply don't care in which case, there's no point in this discussion.