I have tried posting more details but I get timed out on this site.
What do you make of an ex-girlfriend sending a Facebook request to me after 20 years? I accepted and we exchanged some nice friendly messages. She was my best friend, soul mate and we talked marriage. We ended up going separate ways (we were just too young and stupid then) and both got married and had kids. I thought about her a lot even would have recurring dreams about her. I never had a connection like I did with her - not even my wife.
She has no pictures of her with her husband on her FB page and not to be mean but he is not that good looking but he has money.
I am dying to meet her just to see how she is doing? What should I do? Ask me any follow up questions if that will help you assess.