My question is: dose he want more from me ie a relationship?
and my question to you is why haven't you addressed this with him?
If the original deal was that you were **** buddies but now he's actually "dating" you (has he dated you yet or is this all just things he's GOING to do with you but hasn't yet) then you should have a conversation with him if things have changed. Do you even know if he's being exclusive with you or if he's got others just like you that he rotates and takes 3 hours away on mini-vacations. Do all you do when you get together is small talk and then you screw? Has he ever taken you out on a real date yet?
We cannot give you an answer to your question... Only he can do that. After you talk to him, let us know what he said and we'll more likely be able to tell you if he wants more from that conversation then anything you've told us so far.
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