This past year was the best one of my life due to the girl I met, who just so happens to be a Pisces, and I’m a Sagittarius. I never really considered the zodiacs during our relationship, but now that I read about it, it makes sense how we were so different from each other. As they always say, opposites attract, and boy was there an attraction. Every moment we spent together was great and never dull, even just laying around all day was fun. I am sort of an old fashioned southern gentleman to my ladies, so she loved how I would treat her (always get doors, pay for meals, etc.) The longer we would go out, the bigger I would make surprises for her. Being the romantics that Pisces are, I know she loved all the things I did for birthdays, holidays, anniversaries, etc., especially because she would show me afterwards if you know what I mean I was her first kiss, boyfriend, and the first person she trusted enough to make love with. That was always so intense and amazing. We were only together for 11 months, but the instant connection we had made it seem like we were lifelong lovers. Even though we are both young, our parents would always say it was meant to be since everything was always so perfect. I have never been so in love with someone, and I’m NEVER really one to give my heart out to a girl. That’s why I was certain that we were meant for each other. She always agreed with me, and would even say stuff about how she could see us together in the future. Unfortunately in June, she decided to end it on the day after our 11 month anniversary. She claims that she needs to know what it’s like to date other people, and she hasn't been able to experience the same things I have before meeting her. It was just such a shock to the system, especially after how crazy she was about me. She would text me all the time everyday, we’d do something almost every weekend, and she would always tell me how in love with me she was. Obviously, a real connection is there, and I can’t stand not being able to be with her anymore. In the immediate aftermath of the breakup, I did the typical trying to change her mind stuff, but I know that doesn't work. However, I did give her the one year anniversary little Shutterfly photo book I had already ordered, and gave her a letter to read once I left. We had a real tearful and heartfelt goodbye with hugs and kisses, as I told her that even though I hate it I understand her reasoning. That right there tells me that it's not over. How many break ups do you know that end with hugs and kisses for like an hour?? It sucks though because I see her almost everyday since she lives in the neighborhood I guard (I’m a security guard). Fast forward to a few weeks ago, the other night as I was leaving, she was coming home and told me that she was sorry for the way things ended. We talked face to face there for almost an hour. It was not really awkward, actually the pauses in between were filled with us kind of lightly smiling at each other. A few days later, I told her that I wanted to talk, and I apologized for some things. Mainly just how I know I may have seemed harsh at times or disregarded her feelings even though I never intended to. I know now that the Pisces is very sensitive and emotional. I just felt like I needed to say a few things to show her that I am still the sincere guy she fell in love with. She swears though every time that it was not my fault or anything I did, but regardless I just felt it was the right thing to do. I haven’t really tried to text her that much, and when I did it would be a short single message that did not mention anything about the breakup. I did in person that night I mentioned earlier, say that we should go do something sometime, and she was like “yeah we’ll have to soon!” This morning, I left a dozen roses in a vase on her porch with a note wishing her good luck on her first performance tonight (she's a dancer), and I'm hoping that will make her think about how I used to be at those performances and miss me even more. I know everyone says to leave them alone and give the person space, but I'm just kind of leery about that because I want her to have me on her mind. What do you think I should do? I love her so much, and I know she’s the one. It does not matter how old you are, when you know you have met the one, you know. Being a young guy, I had my doubts early about being “tied down”, but now that I know what it is like to live without her, I don’t ever want to again. Thanks for any input and advice!!