Met this guy a few weeks ago. We met up and things were great, so he met my kids. After the first night he was around them, everything was still great. However, he sent me a message saying "don't fall in love with me or let me fall in love with you." Odd, but cool with me, I don't want a fast track relationship. So here is where the mixed signals come into play. When he is around me, he is always wrapping his arms around me and sniffing and kissing my hair and then he will just stare into my eyes like he is trying to figure out how I am feeling. There has been no official we are or not together conversation, but he will say things like "you are mine" and "if we ever break up, would you still kiss me even if you are with someone else?" and "if you keep kissing me like that, I'm marrying you in three years"(I am taking college courses and get extra grants and loans for being a single mom, and I have three years left). He is great with my kids and is always saying that he really likes being around them. Then it gets more confusing, when we are talking, he talks about still being on a dating website and how many messages he is getting and that he is amazed at how many women are single moms and depressed about life and he likes to talk to them and try to cheer them up (I don't think that I believe that). So why, if he is taking time to spend with the kids and is calling me his and all of this other stuff and yet is still active on a dating site? Why bare your soul to someone if you are talking to others?