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It's a no brainer when one ask what "we think" they are fishing for advice on how to handle their situation. She is being submissive don't ya know.
Do what you like in the privacy of your own bedroom. Ice cream comes in many flavours besides vanilla.
If you want to really makes some friends here, post your xperience after the deed.
Good luck.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
Wakeup is right.....you are on the wrong website for the subject matter you wish to discuss.
This IS a relationship/love advice site.
I'm sure you can locate a dicussion group of very experienced people to share your thoughts with.
Ask who's bringing the chips. jk
No, seriously, we're not that kind of site... But I hope you get to find your subject matter.
Take care, and if you should ever need advice about your relationship, please keep us in mind!
My boyfriend actually told me that he thought I wanted a threesome, but I thought he wanted a threesome. I finally admitted to him that I would rather have him to myself than let another guy touch me only to allow him to have another girl touch him. He's totally okay with not having a threesome (he said he feels neutral about it), so now I feel better and less overwhelmed and less nervous. Thank you for the replies though.
Hes only telling you what you want to hear. You cant say something like that and then take it back..
"Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".
He's not. He really thought I wanted a threesome, which is understandable. He's neutral about having a threesome and doesn't mind at all if I don't want one. There's nothing wrong with him. He gave me the choice anyways, and he even said I didn't have to do it if I didn't want to. So now everything is off and he doesn't mind spending all his time with only me when he comes here in a few months.
"When he comes here in a few months?" lmfao
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
There is no need to prove it.
The poster had a right to laugh about it even if it was hurtful. You are assuming things too... like what's going on inside the head when a person scoffs like that. You can only assume.
I for one have faith in your relationship as you sound like a reasonable person who has their thoughts together and a cool head.
Sorry we just dont dig long distance relationships. We have our own reasons for that but regardless, good luck
"Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".
Even though you have this agreement that he owns you and you have no say at all, You should not do what you don't want to do. At the end of the day you're the one with the vag so you have the power.