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    When was the last time you been in love?

    So when was the last time you been in love? And how it all ended? I mean crazy in love. Like fck my dreams fck what happens to me, my future, I just want this person to be happy.
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    real love? 2 years ago. ended because we drifted apart nothing major happened to end it.
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    So you just let her go like that? It ended because she moved to another place or you just stopped dating without major reason? Second makes me question if it really was real love.

    My last time in love was two years ago to. I gave up everything to be with her but at the same time I had huge problems that and I didnt wanted be part of them since I loved her so much. Relationship suffereed and she turned to alcohol. I felt like Im the only one trying to make it work, felt like powerless, it was too hard and I just left. Still never really stopped to love her. Love was special lol.
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    Im in love now and he and I are having problems because I caught him posting something on Instagram that he shouldn't have, like commenting on something and I didn't like. It sounds petty but commenting a girl on how beautiful she is and maybe you could know her is bullshit. I did have an attitude and kind of accused him of doing something and he denied it until I showed him what I was talking about. We haven't had issues like that since but it did change things and we recently got into it and we haven't talked in a few days. I miss him though but I refuse to all him because he was in the wrong. Then for him to try to act like he didnt do it until I called him out on it, pissed me off and he think I got a nasty attitude....he always trying to call me out on that. He need to learn his lesson....


    I miss him though.... =(

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    Well its was just a comment, maybe he says that to all the girls. But being in relationship and saying that is not very nice. Still conflicts is about being calm, finding compromise and threading other person like you want to be threaded yourself.
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    Quote Originally Posted by pcmaster View Post
    So you just let her go like that? It ended because she moved to another place or you just stopped dating without major reason? Second makes me question if it really was real love.

    My last time in love was two years ago to. I gave up everything to be with her but at the same time I had huge problems that and I didnt wanted be part of them since I loved her so much. Relationship suffereed and she turned to alcohol. I felt like Im the only one trying to make it work, felt like powerless, it was too hard and I just left. Still never really stopped to love her. Love was special lol.
    it was mutual, sometimes even with love you grow apart. it was real love for me i was loyal, faithful to her didn't even think about another during that time. she did end up moving a few months later but wasn't the cause of breaking up. damn on your ex turning to alcohol. have you ever seen her since you broke?
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    Quote Originally Posted by pcmaster View Post
    So when was the last time you been in love? And how it all ended? I mean crazy in love. Like fck my dreams fck what happens to me, my future, I just want this person to be happy.
    This sounds more like infatuation than being in love. I am in love now, and my dreams include being with my boyfriend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Exeter19 View Post
    it was mutual, sometimes even with love you grow apart. it was real love for me i was loyal, faithful to her didn't even think about another during that time. she did end up moving a few months later but wasn't the cause of breaking up. damn on your ex turning to alcohol. have you ever seen her since you broke?
    It was 2 years ago my friend but I saw her few months after and she looked really sad(but so did I). However I looked her up on FB in january. She looked like a pornstar. Lost weight, big boobs and dark makeup. Was so hard to see that after I remember the angel she was.
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    sounds like she did a complete transformation on herself since you broke up. did you feel love still or more sad for her on what you saw re her fb page? i've seen mine around a few times since she moved because all her family still lives here so she visits all the holidays. but i don't feel love for her anymore i moved on from that with her.
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    I felt more sad afterwards, my heart was hurting for days. Always had these fatherly feelings for her. Feel guilty that I never said how perfect she is for me. She kinda become what society thinks is hot but if she only knew how my eyes are seeing her.

    Thanks for sharing your stories guys. But what I mean in this topic by being in love when you lose mind over the person, even knowing that loving is wrong theres nothing you could do cause its so deep in heart. For example like Rowen loved Dave when Rowen was in complete shit afterwards and had to seek therapy and been crying like a baby. Or when Star loved that drug dealer and became stripper afterwards to make him jealous and did other stupid things.
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    Obviously, you all heard about my romantic train-wreck with Dave...That was the last time for me. :S And, if I'm honest, I love him just as much as I did back then, although I've been trying to get better at focusing on my life more. So far, it's okay, with the help of my therapist, but I still have a ways to go. I feel ready for a relationship, but I'm not rushing at all.. Anyway, I didn't really disregard my own dreams when I was with Dave, but I was kind of always picturing how it'd be with us when he made his come true and I made mine come true.. :S It was a nice thought, but he's happy and I'm kind of happy now.. :S

    And sorry if I hurt anyone on here..I was a bit of an asshole.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pcmaster View Post
    Or when Star loved that drug dealer and became stripper afterwards to make him jealous and did other stupid things.
    PC, you know too much....

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    Last time I was in love was two years ago. I went through a bit of a desperate phase when it wasn't working anymore but I stopped in time and forgetting about him felt much better than loving him. It took me several months to accept it was really over but when that happened I went from missing him to having zero feelings for him in one single day. A dream I had of my great-grandmother totally changed my state of mind instantly and gave me back my emotional freedom, joy and strength that I value deeply and feels a thousand times better than any lingering feelings or nostalgy for a lost incompatible love :-)
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    I am now and it is ending in pregnancy, baby and marriage =)
    It's a lot to adjust to but also look forward to the life chances and being more adult and responsible not only for myself but for two others.

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    I Am head over in heals with someone who doesnt love me. I've come to the conclusion they will never like me the way I like them and have hardened my heart. Falling in love is not all it is cracked up to be. There is no happy ever after.

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