Okay so i went to another singles night (my friend kind of ditched me and i was unable to go as he was the transport, but my mum came to the rescue...yeah i know rather embarrassing, ad she gave me a lift there and back, didn't come in thank god) but sadly the night was a bit of a waste felt like i'd walked into a over 40's night with around 15 people there and nobody around my age. and the live music was rather bad as well, so i didn't last long.
But this story has a happy ending after that long thread trying to get help sorting out my OLD profile, A local girl messaged me!! we've ended up talking and she has asked me out! sadly in the profile i don't see much immediate attraction, but we do share a lot of similar interests but I hope meeting her in person will be much better and worth a shot! will keep you posted with what happens.