Husband left daughter for a hooker?!

[samantha11]

I know this millionaire, good looking man. Hes divorced dad of a 5 year old. He is on substances, smokes, is flirty and womanizing.
He is now dating a woman 4 years older than him. Shes 38. She has 3 young kids. She has been after him ever since day she met him as a 'admirer'.
When she met him again, they got involved in sex and all.
And now he left me to date her. She is very slutty and incredibly gold digging.
She gets all these expensive designer shoes and stuff from him which she shows off to the world on instagram and facebook.

She even tweeted sexual innuendoes to him, called his fans 'bitches wishing to be her', favorited all tweets which called them 'nice couple' and even her family members post videos of them kissing at his shows and uploading her pics.

He got her off twitter as she was ruining his image. But hes still dating such a woman.

She tells everyone that shes his gf and that they share the same birthday (1st april). He acts like a jerk whenever hes with her. He even bought her to the public shows, posted pics with her and retweeted her 'i love you boo' tweet. She made her twitter again.

She always tweets sexual references to him (hes great in bed). She glares at his female fans. She even hates his daughter, blocking anyone who said he best being father to his 5 y/o. Some gals said he was hitting on other girls too and lied to her when she confronted him about it.

Do they love each other?

[basilandthyme]

How many times are you going to ask this question??? Aren't you tired of rehashing the same old shit?

[smackie9]

btw it's none of your business if they do or not.....get a life.

[HeartIsAching]

I still don't see how she's a hooker... but I do see how you're a dumbass.

[michelle23]

Again why would you even want a man like this? And what kind of role model is he for your daughter? Get some therapy please

[chinagirl]

Get a life Samantha11... Your story is getting old and boring. Do you have any other questions or problems we can help you with?

[Valixy]

Some girls who fall for guys like your ex, like to think that because of their love, loyalty and family they built together, they'll always be ''the one'' and the many other women he sleeps with will never be taken serioulsy or mean anything to him. If this was your belief, you need to change it because it failed to offer you a safe marriage and now that you're divorced it really doesn't apply anymore. He is free to be with who he wants and he has moved on.

He was of course wrong by not respecting his marriage and family enough and he will pay a price for his lack of control, but you owe it to yourself and to your daugther to try to put the pieces together. You've got your own task to prove now.

This woman is just one of the many that will follow and neither her or the next one will care about what you think you deserve, so stop expecting this to happen. It's a selfish world outhere, your ex is not with his wife anymore and they don't need to worry about anything else. Besides even if these women could be of better or worse quality, they are all falling in the same trap as you did, thinking they could be special to him, only to realise that as soon as the novelty disappears they don't count anymore.

You're the only one who can do justice to yourself, Samantha, by accepting that your marriage is over, just like other millions of marriages that stop working, and concentrating on your new life with your daughter. You deserve better than what he put you through and what you put yourself through.

[Wakeup]

OP: You are bitter and you're causing your own grief by continuing to stalk him on social networking sites. You're jaded and you are coming across as very unattractive to this forum of insightful people who are now losing patience with your whine.

If you can't get over your bitterness and jaded outlook then please get help from a professional therapist because your attitude will do NOTHING to help your children to grow up emotionally secure and healthy (if You have any) nor will it give any new man you meet a positive first impression of you. Time to stop this nonsense that does nothing to help you move on.

[chinagirl]

I know this millionaire, good looking man. Hes divorced dad of a 5 year old..." "And now he left me to date her."

Do they love each other?

Oh, you not only know of the millionaire, but the millionaire is actually your ex and the father of your child. I didn't realize that...

Samantha, for the millionth time, the answer is YES, they love each other. Just accept it, PLEASE...

[nopickuplines]

Hi Samantha,
Many have rudely stated that it really is up to your ex husband to date who he wants. It's his life. He can **** who ever he wants. I like to use the analogy, just because spaghetti is his favorite food, doesn't mean he wants to eat spaghetti for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. He wants variety. As cruel as that may sound, we are sexual human beings, and its natural to want something different. If women like you allowed men to just be men, they'd be back to their favorite food much more often, than their alternative plates. Stop trying to cage up a man. Go inside of yourself, and change your energy to accept yourself as a sexual women, who also gets intrigued by attractive men, and you have every right to want a different dish too. That doesn't mean you don't love the partner you choose to come back to every night. In fact this type of attitude shows that you love that person very much, and that you love yourself very much too.

[samantha11]

Some girls who fall for guys like your ex, like to think that because of their love, loyalty and family they built together, they'll always be ''the one'' and the many other women he sleeps with will never be taken serioulsy or mean anything to him. If this was your belief, you need to change it because it failed to offer you a safe marriage and now that you're divorced it really doesn't apply anymore. He is free to be with who he wants and he has moved on.

He was of course wrong by not respecting his marriage and family enough and he will pay a price for his lack of control, but you owe it to yourself and to your daugther to try to put the pieces together. You've got your own task to prove now.

This woman is just one of the many that will follow and neither her or the next one will care about what you think you deserve, so stop expecting this to happen. It's a selfish world outhere, your ex is not with his wife anymore and they don't need to worry about anything else. Besides even if these women could be of better or worse quality, they are all falling in the same trap as you did, thinking they could be special to him, only to realise that as soon as the novelty disappears they don't count anymore.

You're the only one who can do justice to yourself, Samantha, by accepting that your marriage is over, just like other millions of marriages that stop working, and concentrating on your new life with your daughter. You deserve better than what he put you through and what you put yourself through.

If this is the case that shes just another woman, then why is he ignoring the daughter? She blocks anyone who mentions our daughter and he still with her.
She causes him public trouble yet hes with her. Hes even publicly telling people that hes blocking anyone who is rude to her. He retweets tweets like 'love you boo' from her.
Shes rude to his admirers and glares at his female fans and he is OK with it and even acts rudely when shes around.
What is all this?

[basilandthyme]

Valixy, you fed the troll

[michelle23]

Hi Samantha,
Many have rudely stated that it really is up to your ex husband to date who he wants. It's his life. He can **** who ever he wants. I like to use the analogy, just because spaghetti is his favorite food, doesn't mean he wants to eat spaghetti for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. He wants variety. As cruel as that may sound, we are sexual human beings, and its natural to want something different. If women like you allowed men to just be men, they'd be back to their favorite food much more often, than their alternative plates. Stop trying to cage up a man. Go inside of yourself, and change your energy to accept yourself as a sexual women, who also gets intrigued by attractive men, and you have every right to want a different dish too. That doesn't mean you don't love the partner you choose to come back to every night. In fact this type of attitude shows that you love that person very much, and that you love yourself very much too.

This isn't an open relationship support group. Go spout your crap somewhere else. If you dont believe in monogamy-fine but you dont need to project your views on those who do.

[basilandthyme]

Michelle fed the troll

[Valixy]

Valixy, you fed the troll

Maybe you're right, Basil :-) Anyway...

She causes him public trouble yet hes with her. Hes even publicly telling people that hes blocking anyone who is rude to her. He retweets tweets like 'love you boo' from her.
Shes rude to his admirers and glares at his female fans and he is OK with it and even acts rudely when shes around.
What is all this?

He confuses infatuation with love, Samantha, that's why. Maybe he's not a cold calculated womanizer but a soft weak one who even believes he is in love every time he becomes attracted to someone but he won't be able to confuse things much longer because he'll become infatuated by someone else and then a new one, and so on. So no, this is by far love or a long term relationship, in my opinión, but this doesn't mean that there still is a chance for you two. He doesn't love you anymore, he has moved on and he will have many new ex-es in the next years that won't be you. Besides only adult couples that don't have a stable well founded relationship are the ones that need to put on a show online because there isn't much else to feed their daily interaction sadly.

If this is the case that shes just another woman, then why is he ignoring the daughter? She blocks anyone who mentions our daughter and he still with her?

I don't see much sense in those tweets addressed to her about your daughter because it's not her who should make your ex a good father, he should want to be one and if he doesn't want to, that is another big loss in his life, that you can compensate in your daughter's life, but you need to become a happy strong woman for that at peace with her life.

Really, Samantha, sooner or later you'll have to put him, his affairs and your marriage behind you. So why would you want to prolong your sufferance a few more years instead if starting now to do the right thing and detach of all this mess of his?