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    how do girls resolve arguments?

    every girl i have dated they always wait 3 or 4 days to talk about it. they will go out and go with their friends and ignore you but then after you dont talk to them a bit they will want to talk

    why? is every girl like this?

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    How old are you? Age can play a factor here. Some younger women just dont know how to communicate properly but most of the time it gets better with age and experience.
    "Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".

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    She's right. The older you get and the more experienced you become with relationships, the easier communication becomes. I'm only 24 right now, when my boyfriend and I got together I had just turned 21. Even in these past three years both of our communication skills have gotten better (he's a year older than me).

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    I'm thinking that you're choosing the wrong girls
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    That kind of arguing style occurs with guys too. Cool off time.

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    Its so frustrating when reconciliation styles don't match. You wanna figure things out immediately or you'll mull over it and go insane. She wants to avoid it completely, go partying and deal with it later. Unless you find a middle solution it will always be tough.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bekho View Post
    Its so frustrating when reconciliation styles don't match. You wanna figure things out immediately or you'll mull over it and go insane. She wants to avoid it completely, go partying and deal with it later. Unless you find a middle solution it will always be tough.
    This^ is one of the most important determinants for a successful relationship, IMO. My ex, he was an ostrich (avoid conflict/pass-aggressive). My SO, same as I am -- get it out there, talk it out, find a solution, be happy. Night and day.
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