I will give you the basics:
My girlfriend broke up with me 2 months ago and said she wanted nothing to do with me anymore(too much arguing, stubborn, hard headed) she said she couldn't be friends with me because she wants to be with me but can't............for about a week or so we barely talked, texted or anything. We started slowly talking and then even she came by my place twice last month, I went by her work a couple times(when she got off) all the times we would embrace, hug, kisses on the cheek and talk for a bit, we seem to see each other since about once a week.
I asked her out for my bday and she declined, I asked her out for the following week and she declined as well(she said she wasn't ready for that) all the while we talk on the phone every day sometimes 2-3 times a day, we text too. I'm not dating anyone and either is she, I finally after waiting a few weeks asked her out 2 weeks ago and she said yes, we had a great dinner, walked around afterwards she grabbed my arm to lock arms, we hugged like several times and a lot of flirting. We ended up back at my place in bed making out(first kisses in 2 months) I tried to have sex a couple times as we were both pretty much naked but she said no "just hold me and love me" so I did. We had a great overall evening. We are continuing to talk every day and see each other here and there but she told me 2 days ago when it came up that she still feels the same way( from day 1 she said she was damaged and didn't see us getting back together) I'm confused! I don't know what to do at times? I give her space, I'm not bugging her about us etc.............actually she calls me 90% of the time! I answer her calls and reply to her texts and stuff like that. I really could use some advice! this woman is the Love of my life and means every thing to me! I want to have a life with her! Marry her someday............oh yeah and she said the other day when I asked her if you don't see us together can you see us as friends? she said "no way! "I could never just be friends with you"
Just seems like a tough spot there is Relationship on one side and Friendship on the other and here we are for the last 2 months right stuck in that middle! uggghhhhh