Originally Posted by
stonesnbones
THe more replies I get about the no contact, the more I get confident it is the way to go.
I guess its true that if you really loved the person, you would let her go, and if she feels that you might have been the one, then she would comeback someday....
During the year I was contacting her, she found someone new, is already asking him to move in with her when her life involves working so much and not being able to catch up on lifes little nuances like paying bills. Trying to find a new job in this mess may make it worse. I think me being there to talk to her gives her some reassurance that if it doesnt work, Ill be here, and because of that, shes going ahead with everything she wanted to do because she knows Im there.
Guess its time for me to go into mourning....Still feel pretty bad of not letting her know, although I did kinda mention its time I moved on and told her to have a wonderful life. Is it alright to start a no contact rule with an ending like "If things go wrong, and you may want to get back together, you know where to find me, and we'll see what happens, if it ever comes"?