Originally Posted by
Starnique
This is so damn messy. Like...where do I begin. First of all, why are you even with this shady dude when you know he was still seeing his Ex? Obviously that affected your ability to trust him because why would you feel the need to contact his dumb ex? You called her and she's probably still seeing him so her word isn't trustworthy. She could be telling you anything. Obviously, he's not that bad if she is going to be taking care of him when he gets out the hospital. There are still some feelings there. You're so simple. Who would be okay with their bf staying with the ex while he recovers? At this point who cares what he has to say. He has not shit to say as far as I'm concerned. You need to focus on getting out of this relationship unless of course you don't mind sharing or his going back and forth between two silly ass women.
Anyway, I learned a long time ago that you play yourself when you call another woman. She don't care about your feelings,don't owe you anything and sometimes they tell lies. The problem is him. Deal with him. Send him packing. What do you really have to talk to her about? You don't need to confirm shit with her. Send his raggedy self over there with her. They're both idiots . She's a therapist? She need to get her own life together before trying to help someone else. She still dealing with him. . Move on honey.