I like this forum personally. Yes, there are a few apparent jerks on here but this is my first forum and I actually don't take the tough love personal. People just feel strongly about their beliefs. I don't think people should go too crazy because unless you walk in ones shoes, then you cant really say what you'd do in certain situations. I went through circumstances in my adult life that I didn't think that I would. Nonetheless, I enjoy the forum in my pastime.
It does make you wonder how some of the members are in person. I think peoples personalities come out through what they say around here.