Hi All
I have a situation that I need advice with.
There is a lady in my office block that I have got friendly with. We are both married. We are pretty similar and have similar interests.
She has even visited my home with kids etcetera.
We chat often in the office and its going well as a friendship.
We did chat a bit online, but then she suddenly went cold and mostly does not reply to my messages, although my messages are not questions just statement and "check this out type messages..", so they do not not need a reply.
So the situation is a little confusing to me. She definitely likes to talk to me in "the flesh", but not online.
Is it because she wants to remain friends and feels uncomfortable with online chats, or does she simply want to end all contact and is just being polite. Confused... please help.
Will answer questions if further clarity is needed.
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17-12-13, 11:50 PM #1
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Lady friend confusion...
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18-12-13, 12:26 AM #2
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Why ask us? Doesn't your wife have an opinion on all this? I mean c'mon bro.....she's your wife....don't you guys talk before you go to sleep?
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18-12-13, 12:32 AM #3
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This is a ask a female area.... you are not.
Originally Posted by surfhb2
Why ask us? Doesn't your wife have an opinion on all this? I mean c'mon bro.....she's your wife....don't you guys talk before you go to sleep?
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18-12-13, 07:53 AM #4
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That rule isn't followed around here
if you think you're going to get any positive Replys from the ladies around these parts you're sorely mistaken. Anyway....what your wife say?
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18-12-13, 08:00 AM #5
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I agree with Surf. Yeah, ask ya wife. This situation wouldn't be so confusing if your ass wasn't trying to be sneaky and get involved in a way that you have no business getting involved in. You obviously want more out of this friendship.
This is why any man of mine don't have friends of the opposite sex.
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18-12-13, 08:13 AM #6
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Another thing is, maybe she seen thru your bullshit and unlike you she respects her marriage.
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I don't want anything out of the relationship. I just want to be friends and I have told my wife of behavoiur of late. She also messed my wife around a bit by not replying to texts etcetera... Originally Posted by Starnique
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18-12-13, 11:14 PM #8
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You, my friend, are one weird dude!
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19-12-13, 01:32 AM #9
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Why do you say that? Originally Posted by surfhb2
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