I'm at university so we are in a long distance relationship. She best friends with one of my best friends, john.
She and john go to school together so they see eachother everyday.
He has been in love with her for about 4 months and we both know this.
They spend a lot of time together, often just the two of them, and text all the time.
Once when they went to the pub while I was at uni he apparently put his hand on her knee, though she removed it after a bit. On the same night they both went back to his place drunk for less than an hour before she went home.
She says that she needs him in her life while I'm not there. If he is unhappy, she is unhappy.
She says that a few weeks ago she became 'confused' about her feelings for him and was looking forward to seeing him 'too much'. But she apparently figured out what she wanted in her head and says that she'll never be 'confused' about him again.
I find this all incredibly hard to deal with. Am I being over-sensitive, or would it be fair to expect her to adapt her relationship with john?
Many thanks
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