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Thread: New boyfriend hardly wants sex HELP!

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    Quote Originally Posted by michelle23 View Post
    Ok its your choice but just remember its not gonna get any better
    I agree with you but the OP just is not listening.

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    Quote Originally Posted by worriednotsure View Post
    I wish it was that easy but I do love this guy. I couldnt walk away without trying.
    *coughs*BULLSHIT!*coughs* Sorry, I'm just allergic to shit like this...

    You don't love him. You want to change him. Loving him means accepting him as he is, flaws and all. If you really loved him, you wouldn't be trying to change him into the sexual beast you want.

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    Ya and you cant "love" someone after a measly 3months. Try infatuation.. would it be weird to tell a guy "im infatuated by you too" if he said he loves me lol

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    the fact that this guy only has sex once every 2/3 weeks doesnt imply or suggest the problem is with you. some guys just have a low sex drive and if you love him(like u claim) then you would try to make it work and if he loves you he would atleast try to make a compromise..communication is key

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    Some people just have a low sex drive. Leave him it will not work out for you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Boisdevie View Post
    I always thought baldness was a sign of high testosterone so that's not the real reason. It sounds like the real reason is your sexually incompatible and it's nothing to do with his age. I'm 49 and I'd shag every day given the chance.
    This problem will not go away and it won't get better. If he's not giving you much sex now do you really imagine that things will magically improve - they won't. Dump him and find somebody more compaibtle.
    Yep, this is right. Male-pattern baldness (widow's peak) is a sign of high testosterone... my hairline is receding, I'm in my middle 40s and I DO boink pretty much daily. Boisdevie is right - you two are sexually incompatible. I know from experience that it sucks, and yes it DOES make you feel like it's your issue. It's not.

    Unfortunately, there's nothing you can do to change that. You can either live with it, or not; decision time.

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