If you believe the disney films, books, love stories on tv etc then you will never be happy. Most love stories only focus on the beginning of a new relationship. The infatuation, the butterflies, excitement, walking on a cloud etc..
A lot of people think as soon as that infatuation ends that something is wrong coz they dont feel crazy anymore and have insane lust etc. They stop having obsessive thoughts and anxiety which is totally normal in order to move onto the next stage of bonding but a lot of people think "shit somethings wrong, we gotta break up"-normally within the first two years.. ive been there myself which is the only reason i understand it lol but i got through it and am so crazy in love now, not infatuated-in REAL love and i love it
My favourite love story of all time which makes me cry everytime i watch it and ive seen it 100 times is ps i love you. It focuses on what happens way after the honeymoon period, the ups and downs and how a strong couple lasts etc.
They should really start teaching this stuff in school. "The difference between infatuation and love". Theres a reason whybor grandparents lasted 50 years or more with their first and only love and its coz they didnt watch all the confusing crap we were brought up watching
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