How many people have you slept with

[Jessica27]

i am 27 y.o now

[cosquin]

Excuse me but...I've had a lot of relations that were not full sex. How I should count them?

[randomguy85]

28 y/o
Over 15 at least.

I'm not into ONS's. I like F Buddies, haha.

[DianneL]

im 26 and slept with 2 ladies...damn i feel lame lol

Nope. You're what we've always been looking for. We're low-count also and well demand the same in return in a man.

I'm 23 years old and had 1 relationship. Was always going to be in another relationship but it ended when I found out about his wild sexual past, dumped him. I don't want that. So 1 is my number.

[smackie9]

Numbers doesn't always = wild sex past.

[DianneL]

Numbers doesn't always = wild sex past.

Yes, but it's harder for some people with a low number to relate to someone of a high number in the 20's.. I just couldn't deal with it and it was a deal-breaker for me.

[smackie9]

I was never a numbers gal I just see the person as who they are here and now and how they treat me. I guess it comes from experience.

I believe behavior is a better way to gauge someone VS a number. So if they disrespected women in the past ( a user ) ya it would be a deal breaker.

So what do you consider a high number for someone that is say 26 years old? (Just curious, I'm not looking to argue).

[DianneL]

So what do you consider a high number for someone that is say 26 years old? (Just curious, I'm not looking to argue).

I would say anything reaching the double digits. I'm not a double digit woman so I look for the same in return. Right now I'm considering dating this guy who is 26 and has only had 1 woman in the past but according to my friend, she isn't too optimistic about it due to his very little desires/interest to have sex. But I want to date him (he is good looking his profile) and my friend will introduce me to him. She keeps saying ''Don't say I didn't warn you about him if you start getting bored''.

[smackie9]

Yaaaaaa, um I would listen to your friend IMO. He could have asperger's syndrome which is a type of Autism. People like him have issues with empathy, and lack being able to read social cues. He could possibly be a-sexual. If your friend is right, don't waste your time trying to "fix" him.

[somehelp4me]

I never cared if a girlfriend had more partners over me, numbers don't affect me at all.

[Peterd191]

Mature and 4 women. But can I ask why women either lie about their past or won't talk about their"short term relationships" where holiday/ drunk sex/ premature ejaculation by the guy/ or didn't like the guy does not count?

[HDBadger]

I'm 32, male, and you can count my number of partners on one hand.

I don't really see how someone, say, in his or her 20s could get a number 20+ without engaging in behavior that took some questionable judgment. So the only reason I care about a woman's number is if it got inflated through a number of one night stands. If you go home with a stranger drunk from a bar, it tells me a whole lot about what you do and don't value and how you make decisions. The number itself isn't the problem; for me, it's the irresponsible behavior.

FWIW, I have no issue at all with people having as much raunchy sex as they can get with people they know well and trust.

[smackie9]

Mature and 4 women. But can I ask why women either lie about their past or won't talk about their"short term relationships" where holiday/ drunk sex/ premature ejaculation by the guy/ or didn't like the guy does not count?

Just read HDbadger's post....that should give you a pretty good idea why people lie.

[DianneL]

Just read HDbadger's post....that should give you a pretty good idea why people lie.

Yes but if he can still count with one hand then he's a man that had few sexual partners, I would assume long term relationships. This is what he's referring to. He can't understand why some people (men and women) can reach number 20+ so fast so that can't really be the norm for either gender.
The difference is he minds because his number isn't high either. If that poster would have had a high number and still had it in him to demand a woman of low count then he would be seen as ridiculous.

[michelle23]

I agree with badger. I wouldnt go out with someone whos had one night stands. One mistake-fine ill get over that but ten. No thanks. It just tells me hes irresponsible, impulsive, doesnt see sex as an emotional thing, likely untrustworthy in a relationship and prob insecure.. i need a man i can trust. Full stop

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