BTW: With the way you think, I do believe you'd be far better off joining Adult Friend Finder. Most of the men there will find you sexually attractive and not care to have a relationship with you... let us know how you make out.
BTW: With the way you think, I do believe you'd be far better off joining Adult Friend Finder. Most of the men there will find you sexually attractive and not care to have a relationship with you... let us know how you make out.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
I feel like I f***ed up the date with my awkwardness. =(
I had impression that guy is not very fast too. Maybe you are too beautiful and guy was shy to kiss you. Anyway I never kiss on a first date. Its because its me or the girl that is too nervous. But on a second date its easy to kiss.
Someday when you bored ask him out on a date.
Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will
Next date depends more on you than him. You felt akward cause guy failed even to look in your eyes(He infected you with his insecurity). Bet now he feels like loser and thinks you are not interested in him anymore.
You cant ask 20 year old guy be the same way as 40 year old. Theres a diferent expierience level and when you actually like the girl its much harder to progress rather when you dont give a damn and it dont matter if you fail.
Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will
" Love and compassion are necessities not luxuries.Without them humanity cannot survive" Dalai Lama
sorry just read this one skipped it before, lilia you seem a lovely girl but seriously you need to fully get over your ex before you can move on, nobodies going to stand much of a chance with you while you're comparing their every move to what your ex would've done in that situation, just a little time on your own to get things in perspective and realise your self worth and that includes i'm afraid undertanding that despite him being nice sometimes your ex was controlling and an emotional bully and so not right for you as a result
" Love and compassion are necessities not luxuries.Without them humanity cannot survive" Dalai Lama
I noticed his insecurity a bit later -when we were in a cafe...
He was telling me a story about how he once rode a pony. And I asked at what age? And as I asked that he got very very embarrassed but kind of laughed it off. He was not a little boy when he rode that pony and I thought he did it when he was little. He looked like he thought that he said something really wrong and awkward.
I noticed when I was eating my dessert and then looked at him, he was keeping his eyes on me and looked dreamy.
I gave him a lot of eye contact.. may be I was creepy. I was staring at him when we had nothing to say...and I kept staring at him. Don't even know why...
At times he laughed and looked interested but at times he looked a bit serious.
Last edited by Lilia; 22-10-13 at 04:38 AM.
sounds to me like he was definitely attracted to you and as pc master said he's a young guy so not necessarily going to be brimming with confidence and life experience seriously hun its a first date supposed to be a time of combined nerves and excitement don't over analyse every look either just enjoy :-)
" Love and compassion are necessities not luxuries.Without them humanity cannot survive" Dalai Lama
if it helps hun i can tell you that people staying with their first love for life is a very rare thing these days and you know yourself deep down that the relationship you were in was hurting you more than it was fulfilling you towards the end, get yourself in to a better place emotionally and you can find someone who will treat you decently and be worthy of your love
" Love and compassion are necessities not luxuries.Without them humanity cannot survive" Dalai Lama