+ Follow This Topic
Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast
Results 1 to 15 of 18

Thread: Why did she call me silly?

  1. #1
    Join Date
    Sep 2013
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    All over the place
    Posts
    30

    Why did she call me silly?

    Why did my crush call me silly when I didn't say or do anything funny?

  2. #2
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Gender
    Female
    Location
    Sydney
    Posts
    7,055
    My guess is that you said or did something stupid
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

  3. #3
    Join Date
    Sep 2013
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    All over the place
    Posts
    30
    She does this a lot. Could it be her way of flirting?

  4. #4
    Join Date
    Oct 2013
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    Somerset
    Posts
    131
    Need more information, though it could be a term of endearment depending on how they said it.

  5. #5
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Gender
    Female
    Location
    Sydney
    Posts
    7,055
    I can't imagine "silly" being an endearment or flirting. It's far more likely that you did or said something stupid or inappropriate. What happened before she said you were silly?
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

  6. #6
    Join Date
    Oct 2013
    Gender
    Female
    Posts
    568
    If there was a giggle in her voice when she said it, she was flirting. "You're so silly" translates to I like you, you make me feel happy & giddy, It's not the best vocabulary choice but it is a positive,

  7. #7
    Join Date
    Sep 2013
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    All over the place
    Posts
    30
    I asked her a question and her reply was "no silly"

  8. #8
    Join Date
    Oct 2013
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    Somerset
    Posts
    131
    depends on the question really, but yes it does sound like a positive. was she smiling when she said it?

  9. #9
    Join Date
    Sep 2013
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    All over the place
    Posts
    30
    Yea she was

  10. #10
    Join Date
    Oct 2013
    Gender
    Female
    Posts
    568
    the non-verbal here overrides her word choice. She called you silly b/c she likes you

  11. #11
    Join Date
    May 2011
    Gender
    Female
    Location
    Canada
    Posts
    14,110
    Well,you silly, she could like you but calling you silly certainly doesn't verify it. I know that what you want to hear is what the poster above is telling you. However: Its more like its a polite way of telling you that what you asked was wrong and to reassure you that she doesn't hold it against you.

    She may like you but it doesn't guarantee that she does, that's for sure.

    If you like her, you should ask her to go on a date with you. If she says yes, then that would be a sure indication that she's interested in you romantically.
    Last edited by Wakeup; 21-10-13 at 12:53 PM.
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

  12. #12
    Join Date
    Aug 2011
    Posts
    6,314
    I sometimes call some of my male friends "silly" with a non-flirty smile on my face if they say or do something silly, doesn't mean that I'm attracted to them. You should ask her out, then you'll know if she likes you "that way".

  13. #13
    Join Date
    Oct 2013
    Gender
    Female
    Location
    I live in Stinnett Ky
    Posts
    2
    I say don't over analyze it. She most likely didn't mean anything by it, and it may have been a term of endearment.

  14. #14
    Join Date
    Jun 2013
    Gender
    Male
    Posts
    150
    Quote Originally Posted by Terrence M. View Post
    I asked her a question and her reply was "no silly"
    Did you ask her if she's a virgin or something?

  15. #15
    Join Date
    Aug 2011
    Posts
    6,314
    Quote Originally Posted by Empty Road View Post
    Did you ask her if she's a virgin or something?
    What does this have to do with anything?

Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast

Similar Threads

  1. Can I call a guy who didn't call me after we hung out friday?
    By nineliveseight in forum Love Advice forum
    Replies: 46
    Last Post: 06-09-13, 11:37 AM
  2. Am I being silly??
    By loopylou78 in forum Love Advice forum
    Replies: 1
    Last Post: 30-05-12, 08:27 AM
  3. Oh no! Silly ME!
    By Confuzzleded in forum Love Advice forum
    Replies: 6
    Last Post: 10-08-10, 05:48 PM
  4. Maybe im just silly..
    By Mizu in forum Love Advice forum
    Replies: 16
    Last Post: 12-07-10, 11:53 AM
  5. Am i BEING Silly????
    By jfansex in forum Ask a Female Forum
    Replies: 2
    Last Post: 21-01-09, 11:42 AM

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •