Girl in college that I'm head over heels for, please help.

**Nans300** · 21-09-13, 09:39 AM

So there is this girl I'm head over heels for, I see her twice a week an hour and a half. She used to always smile at me when I smiled, she we partnered once and talked quite a bit. She got up without saying bye though so I was like weird.....She was on the fone and said oh hey to me, Outta shyness I kept walking.

We even once locked eyes as I passed by as people were saying she keeps looking over at me. I said nothing as I passed by and she looked down. I wish I said something

So I finally grew some balls next day and initiated conversation with this girl. Unlike other days when she smiles and says hi and I say hi back. This time I passed by her before class, smiled and said hi. In class I lend her homework cause she wasn't there past 2 days and she smiles and says thank you appreciate it. Then later I see her by the bus and as I walk by she looks at me and then down to text. I get closer and she glances at me and I smile and she smiles back. I cross her path and say see ya Thursday and she responds "hell yeah" is it weird? I thought that was kinda strange.

Now yesterday I saw my crush before class, but i'm an idiot and she passed by and I looked at a guy instead out of shyness and she didn't say a word to me, no hi, nothing. Is this a red flag to just quit? What does it mean? Does she want me to make the first move?

Ever since then she doesn't say hi unless I do. I feel like she isn't into me or wants me to make the 1st move. So be it. Next week I was planning on sitting next to her and partnering up with her, now after class I was going to ask hey do you have 10-15 mins to spare to help me out on the material? I dunno what the odds of her saying no are. If she says yes, I was going to make small talk with her, so after getting help, I was going to say something like
"thank you very much, you're really nice and I appreciate this. By the way I'm sorry if it seems I'm ignoring you, it's just.....can I be honest with you? You make me shy and I'm weird around you for some reason." Is this okay? I would really like your opinion on this and what you think? I really wanna give a clear sign I'm into her. Everyone keeps telling me I'm not doing enough. I'm shy so I used to only say hi when she would, but now I'm planning doing this whole thing I just mentioned. Please give me your advice. I hate this feeling, I never felt like this before. I miss her and I don't know her. Everytime I see her it's like I been pushed off of a cliff and I'm falling. What an odd feeling. I hate it. I just like her so much. She's so beautiful and I just freeze up when I see her. This isn't like me. Problem is, I'm used to girls talking to me. Now when it matters and I meet someone I genuinely like I have a hard time. Please, anyone let me know your thoughts. I want straight and brutal honesty. What do you think she thinks? I don't know how women think so maybe you can give me advice? Does she not like me? Does she want me to make the first move? I have 4 days until I see her again. And these 4 days might as well be 4 years. They're dragging.

**Agnus** · 21-09-13, 10:28 AM

Women think what you want them to think. If you think you are a dumb idiot, they will think the same. If you think you are a macho, they will be attracted by your manliness (or disgusted, it depends). It's OK to be shy at first, though. You can even fool stupid chicks by pretending you are shy when you are in control of the situation. They can reveal dark sides of their personalities this way. But this is an advanced method. First of all you should develop your confidence and self-esteem. Go to the gym, do bodybuilding exercises. Thus you will look nice outside. You can find a lot of stories online about how bodybuilding changed people's lives. Meanwhile you should create in your mind schemes of your future behavior with beautiful girls - dialogues, gestures, kisses - anything. Then you will be prepared all the time and do everything automatically. I would suggest reading Mind Power Seduction Online Manual and Speed Seduction using NLP if you are still interested.

**Nans300** · 21-09-13, 10:42 AM

Originally Posted by Agnus

Women think what you want them to think. If you think you are a dumb idiot, they will think the same. If you think you are a macho, they will be attracted by your manliness (or disgusted, it depends). It's OK to be shy at first, though. You can even fool stupid chicks by pretending you are shy when you are in control of the situation. They can reveal dark sides of their personalities this way. But this is an advanced method. First of all you should develop your confidence and self-esteem. Go to the gym, do bodybuilding exercises. Thus you will look nice outside. You can find a lot of stories online about how bodybuilding changed people's lives. Meanwhile you should create in your mind schemes of your future behavior with beautiful girls - dialogues, gestures, kisses - anything. Then you will be prepared all the time and do everything automatically. I would suggest reading Mind Power Seduction Online Manual and Speed Seduction using NLP if you are still interested.

Oh well thanks for the tip, but honestly and ironically I was accepted to try out for the Navy SEALs, I am fit and am very confident. I don't know why, but this girl makes me soft and doubt myself. Ironically I don't mind going through the training and feeling pain and jumping out of a plane or being shot at and even taking life, yet I have trouble with this girl. Thanks for your response though. Appreciate any help or input I can get.

**Agnus** · 21-09-13, 10:56 AM