My ex bf is 36, I am 25. He likes younger women; he acted like the younger the better. He said a week before he met me he prayed to meet a nice girl between the ages of 20-23. Really he would go younger but he thought those were the ages he could get away with lol. I was 23 when we met, but I think what really attracted him was that I look a lot younger than I am. I get mistaken pretty much daily for 16-17. For him I think it was like hitting the jackpot, like jail-bait but legal. He said he’d never been so attracted and turned on before and he always told me he loved me. We waited like 6 months to say I love you because we wanted it to be real. But I think because of this he was embarrassed for me to meet his family. After 2 years of dating I had only talked to a few family members over the phone. He told them, “When you meet her you’re gonna go ‘wth, why are you with her she looks so young.’” We were talking about me moving in and it felt like I was going to meet the family soon. Anytime we weren't together he’d either call or text me constantly. We were best friends. He ended up leaving me a month ago for a 32 year old that isn't really his type. The only problem in our relationship was that he wanted me to go back to school and make more money to be able to afford the lifestyle we wanted, but this girl makes less than me, she works at a gas station. She has already met his family. At first I started to question if the last 2 years he lied about loving me. But I don’t think he did, it felt real. I know he had a really hard time letting me go. So my question is if you were in love with someone, they were sweet, nice, always let you have your guy time, treated you like a king, turned you on like no one else ever has, would you leave her for someone else that other people thought you looked more appropriate with? Is it really that big of a deal or is he making it a bigger deal? He looks young for 36 I think.
I’m hurt and broken-hearted. Damn looking young, It sucks. There’s nothing I can do to fix it. I’m actually very attractive; I just have a baby face. He has never told me this was the reason, I just know it is. I treated him too good for him to have another reason.
Maybe some of you will think this guy is sick for liking younger women. I can’t really feel that way since I look 10 years younger than I am. Of course I want to be with someone who is attracted to me.