Hi, I'm a new user and would really appreciate some help.
I am in love with someone who doesn't share his feelings verbally, he says he has never shared anything with his family about how he feels about them. I feel totally loved when we are together but he doesn't say anything about love or the future and it does make me feel insecure. When we have talked (or tried) he admits he needs to change and has asked me to help. We had a chat over the weekend and I am still slightly confused. I told him I wanted to be with someone who loved me and who told me as it was important to me and that I wasn't sure he could give that to me because he either didnt love me or couldnt say it. I asked him if he thought the relationship had come to an end in his opinion and he said he enjoys spending time with me and that he gets excited when he knows hes going to see me, he cares for me and wants to take care of me, I asked him if had fallen for me and he replied yes. He said he needs to let go off his feelings and embrace them and that he didnt want the relationship to finish.
What do you think and do you have any advice on how to help/handle. We have both been married and divorced and are not youngsters but we are not over the hill either lol!!