I find a lot of the women I've dated and been intimate with have kinky tendencies. I'm a bit of a sadist myself. Nothing extreme but I've always had these tendencies.
These women in their daily lives are very disciplined, intelligent, analytical and precise. Their lives are like clockwork. They are also very confident. They feel they are in full control and through hard work and discipline, they will get what they want. Usually they're very successful career-wise.
It is these women I find who actually want/need most a bit of domination intimately. An ex-girlfriend of mine, friends would say how she's bossy and one of them even said she was "sort of a bitch." But they have no idea that in the sack, I'm the one dominating her haha I was surprised to learn she reacted well to my hints at dominating. When I went a bit further, she would whisper to me that she wants to "lose all control."
It seems these type of women need to escape from their clockwork and heavily-regimented daily life now and then and what better escape is there through romance/sex?
The girl I'm dating now. We have yet to be intimate but I have a feeling (given my dating history) that she may be open to kinky stuff as well
Thoughts/comments welcome.