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Thread: Found out that the girl I like likes someone else from a mutual friend. What do I do?

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    Found out that the girl I like likes someone else from a mutual friend. What do I do?

    Long description... Sorry, and please take your time to read it to help me.

    Before I say anything, this thread is about the same girl I have been talking about in my previous threads. Don't bother me and hassle me about making multiple posts cause they all mean a different thing and also i'm feeling depressed with how some people have been treating me in my school.

    Now...
    I asked a girl who is friends with the girl I like to find out who the girl I like likes. I got back from her and she said she likes someone else. I was upset, and told her to tell the girl I like that I like her and want to be friends. Yet... She still shows me signs of liking me more than friends.

    One the day I found out that the girl I like likes someone else, she still showed signs of liking me.

    she looked at me a bit throughout the day.

    In class, another girl asked me how my girlfriend was (I had asked out a girl who lied and the full school knows including the girl I like), I said I didn't have a girlfriend. When I said this the girl I like was sitting in front of me and i'm not sure if she was listening to me.

    School photos were given to us and I showed it to a guy friend of mine. He showed it to the girl I like and she said "Awwwwwwwwww [nickname her and her friend made up] (she stretched the nickname for a long time). The guy then asked her to take it home and put it on her wall, the girl I like replied "Its [my name]'s, he should keep it". The girl I like now had found out I asked out another girl, since then, she never called me by the nickname her and her friend came up with until after the girl asked me how my girlfriend was and I replied I don't have a girlfriend.

    I said something and after she giggled/laughed and said lol (i didn't say anything funny)

    Just today a few guy were annoying me and I got angry (This is why i'm feeling depressed). I sat down on my school bench and I knew I had an angry/depressed look on my face. I saw the girl I like staring at me in my group as she walked passed. As I was upset by another guy and remembering the fact I found out the girl I like likes someone else I tried not to look at her.

    The previous signs she has shown to me are below. (Warning Repeat of previous threads. Again don't hassle me, i'm not in the mood/depressed)

    I like this girl (girl 2) who had found out I had asked out a girl (girl 1). The girl I had asked out (girl 1) lied about wanting to go out with me and the girl I like now (girl 2) doesn't know. But just recently, when walking out from my classroom after class, the girl I like now (girl 2) was with her friend and was walking in the direction I had to walk, when they noticed I was walking the same direction, they walked the other way.

    Also, just today I saw the girl I like now (girl 2) speaking to the guy she went to the school ball with.

    Another day, there was a school lecture and the girl I like now (girl 2) asked where the lecture was and I wanted to know which subject lecture she was going to go to. I knew the answer to it and she said the direct opposite. I then spoke to a few boys about the sport which I like and the girl I like also likes. The boys stopped talking and the girl I like (girl 2) said "Don't Stop, I'm listening" and I spoke to her about getting the tickets to the match and a boy told me that the girl I like always talks about the sport and that I should invite her to the match. She just smiled and didn't say anything. After, she asked me what the lecture was about and said she was going to the one I was going to. On the way to the lecture she was walking with me. When we reached the venue for the lecture, she sat down on a stair and crossed her legs with the leg crossed over facing me. At this time she was speaking about her project marks and then about watching a few boys play rugby at our school carnival after she played her sport.

    Girl 2 has shown signs which to me are signs of liking me which are below...

    SIGNS TO ME SHE LIKES ME

    I had asked out a girl who said yes but lied about wanting to go out with me. The girl I like now was surprised that I asked out a girl saying that I have a girlfriend but now, she doesn't know that the girl I asked out lied. On the same day a boy told me that the girl I asked out was lying about wanting to go out with me. This girl (who I like now) said "Talk to her and find out if she has mutual feeling for you and if she actually wants to go out with you. Just to make sure. She is a nice girl, I don't think she will be lying." saying it with a sad face and tone. On the same day, she said she wondered why guys don't ask her out. (She said this when I was close to her but not directly to me).

    The day or two after finding out I asked out a girl, she was talking about our essay project to me and another girl. She read one of the paragraphs and she looked at the girl 3-4 times and to me 7-8 times when reading it. I told her that I thought it was a good paragraph and she was smiling a bit.

    Before she found out I asked out a girl she showed signs that to me told me she likes me...

    When talking to me about my schoolwork, she touched/tapped my arm and later my back (this has never happened with other girls). Also her hand was close to mine and she didn't move her hand away and when passing pencils and pens to each other, she always made a way for me to touch her hand or her to touch my hand.

    She talks to me and asks questions about my life (If I have brother or sisters) and random questions (If I can do cross eyes, How many children I want when older, about the sport we both like)

    She looks at me a lot. She also leans backwards towards me when sitting in class (she sits in front of me).

    We were talking in a group and I did something and she said we have to have dinner before we go there and was laughing/smiling

    she yelled my name out in a public place (school excursion) when she was with her girl friends and also in class (when in class she yelled my name out a lot throughout the lesson). It was also someones birthday on that same day as the excursion and her friend offered me some cake and she said that she made it.

    She also enjoys the sport I like and the girl I asked out doesn't really talk about the sport. (Seems to have things in common to me)

    One of her good girl friends stare/look at me in one of the classes I'm in with her. When I walked passed her group, one of her girl friends looked at me as I walked passed.

    I have been having exams and every time I see her after the exam she looks/stares at me. One time she was in her group and I saw her looking at me but I walked passed her. After I saw her with another guy (might has kissed on the cheek) (this guy has a girlfriend) and she looked at me. The next day of exams, she walked passed where I was standing and her eyes seemed to follow where I was standing.

    When in class one time, I sat next to this girl and randomly she asked how many kids I would like to have when older. I said how many my partner wants to have but below a certain amount. Without me asking her she just randomly said she wanted a certain amount of children. She was sitting next to one of her girl friends in the class and she didn't really notice anything happen and the question wasn't directed to her.

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    Is there a question - or are you just venting?
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by basilandthyme View Post
    Is there a question - or are you just venting?
    The question is what should I do? Should I trust the girl I asked to find out who the girl I like likes or should I tell the girl I like face to face?

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    She doesn't like you. Not sure how many more ways you need to absorb this fact.

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    If you don't believe the friend, then ask the girl you like on a date. Her response will tell you far more than the guesswork you've been doing so far.
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

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