Every guy apparently ***** off?

[academicgirl]

I don't know, I was listening in to a conversation by two guys on the train today and they were talking about their ******* habits.

And yeah, to cut a long story short, one of them said, "every guy ***** off, or they have ****** off at least once in their life".

I was there thinking to myself, "is this really true?".

So, is this really true that every guy apparently ***** off?

This is a genuine question, and tbh, I wouldn't be surprised if the answer to this question is yes

[devilish]

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See what I did there?

[michelle23]

lol are you talking about masturbating? Is that what ***** means? And yes I would say 99% of men and women masturbate regularly.

[anonymous_a]

Wtf are you attempting to say? Beats off? As in masturbate? Then yes, pretty much all men masturbate, and most women too.

[academicgirl]

lol are you talking about masturbating? Is that what ***** means? And yes I would say 99% of men and women masturbate regularly.

Yeah, that's what I meant.

I thought it was fairly obvious what I meant.

[Exeter19]

yes, more than most probably, teens and up.

[HeartIsAching]

Yeah, that's what I meant.

I thought it was fairly obvious what I meant.

Who authorized you to think?!

[basilandthyme]

I had no idea what you meant. Thanks to the others for clearing it up.

Anyway, I have no doubt it's true.

[dem862]

Only the ones with arms.

[Ginger2013]

If someone says they've never masturbated, I certainly would never believe them, man or woman. I met a guy once who said "I don't do that, jerking off is for young guys", I assumed he meant that he couldn't get an erection, in that case, I would believe it I guess.

[Noveyor]

When I graduated HS, I was the only guy who had never masterbated, every other guy I knew did and thought it was fun.

I didn't want to do it because I only wanted to experience sexual feelings through my future girlfriend and no other outlet outside of her.

I also think porn probably makes it more likely that guys will masterbate because every other guy had seen porn and I had avoided it throughly even at the cost of a good reputation(since other guys didn't respect that I didn't watch porn, and thus I was alienated from most guys that knew except for guys that were okay with it even if they watched it.) I don't understand why other guys don't want their girlfriend to be the first and only naked woman to look at. Each guy should appreciate the body of his girlfriend and consider it the only beautiful female body.

I didn't care about things like popularity, I cared more about whoever was my future girlfriend, than if guys thought I was "cool" for part of the group, their "acceptance". It's because of this feeling that I was able to not masterbate, because I was doing it for her.

And I say this because actually resisting the sexual feelings that peak in the teen years when your single is harder than any degree, harder than any job, hard than anything in the world. It actually cuts you down since your always using your energy and mental will to resist it during those years. I spent three years straight, daily resisting those feelings. I had no girlfriend, and resisting it for long periods of time led to depression. The hormonal peaking suddenly dissapeared at 16. And I thought I was finally free and enjoyed life afterwards not being bothered by hormones, but this can't all be good. I somehow feel that I was suppose to use those feelings on my girlfriend and experience hormones at their peak, now that their gone, I wonder what I missed out on.

I also thought I would earn the merit to find a girl like me, but in the end, I reached the age where I am now to old to get a girlfriend/start a relationship.(28).

So what I got from this is that in highschool, if a guy is sure love isn't a high priority for him and he's probably gonna womanize anyway or not even pay attention to girls, then fapping isn't wrong for those kind of guys as they are not hurting anybody. If guys want a relationship but masterbate, they should probably find girls that also masterbate so that they don't inadvertedly offend them. If a guy doesn't want to masterbate and wants to save his sexual experiences for his girlfriend, then he better hope he is already in a friendship that could develop into a relationship or knows a girl he gets along with and shares the same ideals.

So yeah, it is pointless to judge masterbation, because for those that don't do it for real, its too impress their future lover and not the world. And those that do, it i up to the person they end up with to decide wether what they are doing is wrong, something they forgive, or something they accept and also do.

To answer your question, it is very very rare that there are guys that don't masterbate, and if they don't, its usually for romantic reasons, any other reason wouldn't be strong enough. Plus, if they have seen porn, then their chances of resisting masterbation drops by a lot and they most likely did.

[Jffs24]

Yes, we do. Some more, some less. Nothing bad about it, and it feels good and helps ya out in those inbetween times. Who cares if someone masturbates?