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    Would you cheat?

    Just a non-scientific survey. Ladies please be honest.

    PROS: Guy is very handsome, sexy, confident and charming. He has money, experience and is worldly. He is very attentive and affectionate.

    CONS: He is a player. Deep down he cares only for himself. Once he has lost interest or 'conquered' you, you will be moved to friend zone.

    Assume you are married or in a long term relationship and that it is guaranteed you will never be caught. Would you cheat?
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    No, not if there is no long term potential. It doesn't benefit me all that much.
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    She has her own mind and thinks for herself and knows that she has to be the one who bears the consequences of her decisions

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    I find zero attraction in players whether single or married
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    Oh, and I'd almost certainly cheat in a long distance relationship. Which is why I'd never do one.
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    No. If people have an urge to cheat, they shouldn't be in a relationship. I take emotional commitments seriously.

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    I would never cheat on anyone-ever. And I would never go near a "player" single or not. I hate men like that. He can be a multi-millionaire and have a dick made of diamonds for all I care. he wouldn't get his dirty paws anywhere near me
    "Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".

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    I am confused though: are you asking would we cheat with the player or on the player?

    If its on the player then yes. If I ever did go near a guy like that which is unlikely then it would only be to play him at his own game, treat him like dirt, make him addicted to me and then f**k him up so he knows how it feels.
    "Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".

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    Quote Originally Posted by michelle23 View Post
    I am confused though: are you asking would we cheat with the player or on the player?

    If its on the player then yes. If I ever did go near a guy like that which is unlikely then it would only be to play him at his own game, treat him like dirt, make him addicted to me and then f**k him up so he knows how it feels.
    Gotta say, I like your style.

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    Personally no. Only because when I'm committed to someone, that's who I'm loyal to. But I would definitely end a relationship that wasn't working to pursue another one. But not with a player. I've met them before and that's not my style at all.

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    never, not even if hes the only guy on the planet. Because when i am in love, i tend to stay in it. I would do anythng possible for the man i love. Because for me cheating is unacceptable and unimaginable.

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    He sounds dreamy... I'll do it

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    Would I cheat on the player? No, I wouldn't even begin a relationship with a guy like that, so I couldn't possibly cheat on him.

    Would I cheat with the player? No, I am not attracted to guys like that.

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