It may be obvious to you all but I need your comments:
I met this guy online and we hit it off immediately. He is 45 and I am 36. He was upfront about his expectations of a LTR and starting a family. He claimed that we match and we had a lot in common. We texted a lot and met for a few times during our first 6 weeks of encounter.
Then onto the seventh week, he brought up that we were "together", but he didn't exactly say we were a couple and I thought it was too fast but we were definitely dating. He said that he understood and wouldn't rush me. He was still texting me in the next couple of days but I was sensing something different. And then he didn't contact me for 3 days. When he texted me again, I asked him if he was still looking and he said no, he claimed his heart had me only. He asked me why and I told him he still went on the dating site we met and then he told me something like his subscription was expiring…
And then I didn't hear from him for the next 2 weeks so I sent a message canceling our plan to see a play two months later. There he responded asking me why and I held out for a few days thinking to move on but I replied thinking I should be polite and told him that his 2 weeks of silence led me to believe that he wasn't interested anymore… He texted me more sounding baffled and I didn't reply any of his till a few more days went by wishing him good luck on his new job. Up till then, I knew he was switching jobs but the problem was that he was still texting other people, updating his MSN status and dating profile. He kept asking me if I missed him and behaved as if nothing was wrong and said that we would be going to see the play together in September. I haven't heard from him for the last few days.
So I am really confused. I still like him but he is such a sweet talker. Should I move on and cancel the play again? He is not making plans for us except the play I invited him to see which is over a month away… Or he is too stressed with his new job and needs space?