Mixed sognals- help me fugure out

[aksy]

My ex left me two months ago saying that he doesn't feel he is in live with me. The he contacted me from time to time, I contacted him, at a certain point it seemed to me we are together again. Then one day he told me that nothing had changed in him.

Since that day i contacted him once just to tell him i am ok with break up and i with him all the best. Days passed by. He wrote me on Facebook asked how I am. Then he called me, asking how I am. Yesterday he called and asked if i have time to to hang out. We talked about what is gong on in each others lives. We didn't talk about our relationship. Then I came back home...


What do you think - what shall I think or do now.

I really want him back.

[anonymous_a]

He doesn't want you back, he's just using you for emotional support. If you don't want to get hurt, move on. Ignore his calls, txts and messages.

[aksy]

Why are u so sure?

[anonymous_a]

Because I know men. I've been with a lot of men, been played by a lot of men, and played a lot of men myself. I am experienced lol.

[smackie9]

I agree he is just using you.....if you get into a friendship, he will think things are ok with you...then there will be a day he will be talking about this new girl he is seeing. You need to go no contact. Guys don't talk in code like girls do...what he is saying to you is true....he isn't in love with you anymore.

[aksy]

i FEEL SO BAD NOW

[smackie9]

Don't worry dear, that feeling won't last for very long. It's all part of the healing process.

[anonymous_a]

What smackie said. ^^

[Maple1714]

i FEEL SO BAD NOW

You wont feel bad forever. When you remain "friends" with an ex like this...it's like being broken up with again after every time you hang out. Just be kind to yourself and remove him from your life. The quicker you do this, the quicker you will heal. Remind yourself that someone who truly loves you (friend or romantic) won't flip flop about their feelings so much.