I met a guy through OkCupid about two weeks ago who lives in the city I am about to move to. We hit it off and started texting and planned to meet up last weekend, since I would be in the new city for a few days just to move some things. Anyway, the texting was non-stop, all very sexual and very chatty.
We met and it was even more incredible! I felt a really intense connection with him unlike I've felt with many in the past. We spent the day/night together and then the rest of the weekend we were too busy to see each other again. Yet, he kept asking me when I would be back, and talking about how he wanted to see me again and so forth. Bascially, it seemed like he was looking for something to become serious, and I am very much on the same page with that.
Yet, since I have been back home a "waiting period" has started. It will be about 20 days total (now 15) until I actually move and therefore will be able to see him again. Our texting has hit a serious lull in quantity and in general I am just really worried about having this burn out before it even gets the chance to start! As you can imagine, we don't know each other well at all and so there's not much to text about--everything feels like it needs to be saved for a face to face conversation. A lot of the really sexual things we texted before we met I assume have fizzled because now we've actually experienced each other sexually and the buildup to that is over.
Basically, I am just at a loss to maintain something that feels like it has so much potential in just two weeks--but I feel like these two weeks are going to create a big awkward bump!! Help!