I'll make this quick. Let me preface it by saying that while I'm in no way fantastic at reading women, I'm pretty decent in social situations when I need to be and can pick up well on body language.
I was at a function with family and friends. This woman - call her Kate - was also in town for the function. She's a friend of the family who I've met maybe twice. Immediately her personality attracted me so I chatted her up. She was chatty, smiling, and touchy feely the whole time and stayed close to me. We ended up having a great time together and even spent some time with each other the following days while she was in town. She acted the same way: chatty, lots of touching, even an overtly sexual remark, etc.
But. With all the family and friends in town for the weekend, we had little time together one-on-one. And when we did get some time alone late one night, she fell asleep (long weekend).
So, in the end, nothing happened, and now she's gone back home, which isn't particularly close to here. I did get her phone number.
I'm befuddled. I'm a confident guy, but I'm always skeptical that women are actually interested in me. Now I'm thinking that she's really just a friendly person, and is in no way attracted to me. She really is a terrific woman, though, so I'm hesitant to just give this one up.
The last thing I'll add is that it is possible she thinks it's just weird to be in any way involved with me because our families have known each other for a long time.
For the women here, did I just misread this whole thing? Is it worth continuing contact with her by phone to get to know her better, even though she doesn't live nearby? And do you think she was just being friendly? If there is something I can learn from this, I want that to happen.
Thanks so much.