Originally Posted by
Nicki XoXo
How soon do you think after you're in a relationship is it okay not to use condoms? We stopped using them after a few months. At the time he didn't have any, so we had sex anyway and I felt closer to him as if it was a step up in our relationship. Do yo u all think there is a timeframe for having sex raw and do you feel closer to your mate? I think my man would be offended if I told him to wear one after all this time. Do women seem easy if it's the first time? Do married people really use condoms. I don't get that either.
In your case, Nicki since you're one of two women sharing one penis, you should always have him wear one. BTW: 'trust' has absolutely nothing to do with when partners should choose to stop protecting their junk in this day and age. If either of you have had more then one partner you should not remove your death shield until both of you have been tested twice in a one year period with clean results both times. There are many STD/STI that can go undetected for long periods of time.. A man can carrie the HPV virus and not even know it. Cervical cancer is a good reason not to take chances. There are many menand women who"don't care (our OP is a prime example of that) if they catch anything but forget that if they do, they can transfer it to their next future ex.
Last edited by Wakeup; 22-07-13 at 11:05 PM.
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