Love at first fight

[Kromat83]

imagine if the saying, "loving at first sight", applied to fighting as well.
After our first argument, I knew he/she was the one.
I know some people fight, but are still together.
Most cases, it's because of the kids.

[Rowen]

Of course, you're talking about most married couples fighting over kids... Most unmarried couples fight over a plethora of things... But either way, I doubt that'd ever work. Most of the time, fights lead to hurt feelings. No one is going to say "The asshole that bitched to me like a little baby I knew just had to give me his children."

[sadbunnyface]

Sometimes couples fight because each are so passionate, I think there is an art to fighting with a love done where you refuse to say a trigger you know that person will be wounded by. So anything that really damaged or hurt that person in their past is always off limits in a fight. I had an ex bring up something from my childhood I shared with him in a silly fight once and I was like, that is just wrong and I thought differently about him after. No reason to go THERE, imo.

[Rowen]

I had an ex bring up something from my childhood I shared with him in a silly fight once and I was like, that is just wrong and I thought differently about him after. No reason to go THERE, imo.

Yeah...I remember my ex doing that a few times. Completely repulsive.