what men actually want in long term relationship

[MakingYouFeel]

If a man wants a long term relationship then he wants a mother figure for a girlfriend.

[dickriculous]

There's no universal answer to what men want in a relationship. If enough chemistry is there and it lasts we tend to compromise elements of what we thought we were looking for.

As for the guy in question, it seems you've confused him being horny for you with him being in love with you. But you've been reminded of that a couple of times already. Love Lesson # 1: Love and lust are not the same and do not always (but certainly do sometimes) go hand in hand.