Hi all. Need some advice..
I have been with my husband for 8 years and married for two. 3 weeks ago he came home out of the blue and told me he was leaving. A week later he told me that he had started seeing someone else. 3 days ago he came back to me. Crying, apologising, declaring his love for me. I have to admit I was so happy because I am willing to forgive and try to rebuild the relationship.
Now, he has gone cold on me. He says he doesn't know if he regrets coming back. That he needs his own time and space for a minute. Surely it should be the other way round? He should be trying his hardest to make it up to me? I want it to work, but I refuse to put all of the effort in and make it one sided. He is barely talking to me at the moment. He says I'm pressuring him....he was the one that CHOSE to come back.
What do you think is going on in his head? He is coming over to see me tonight....I need some advice on how to handle this situation please.
Thanks