Originally Posted by
actualgoodguy
Fair enough, I guess it just comes down to how much patience you have; are you willing to settle for an 8 out of 10, or would you rather wait for a 10 out of 10? It's your choice but ultimately there's only one person out there that's the best for each of us. And 999 times out of 1000, none of us will ever meet them because they may live 100, 1,000, or 10,000 miles away from us. So if sex is what you're ultimately looking for rather than the best possible match that's entirely your choice. I just disagree cause the sex will eventually come; I'll just have to be a little more patient at the beginning, but we'll have plenty of time to make up for it and we'll be happier in the process
But the best possible match for me is someone who is great husband material AND has sex with me before marriage. And yes, I found him and we're still very happy together 20 years later.
I'm not sure how you figure that there's only one person who's a perfect match for you. The world population is currently around 7 billion, so how do you think you'll find them with odds of 1:7,000,000,000. Even if you halve the population to rule out the very young and very old and family, you're still looking at impossible odds.
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