so i been with my girl for 4 months(i knew she was bi) and last night she called me asking if she could have a girlfried while we are together. I said "We need to talk about this in person" and she said "Thats fine"
I mean, I wouldn't care if she slept with another girl but it worries me it could affect our relationship. (I become the number 2 option, she loses interest in me)
the hell do i do?
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11-07-13, 08:00 AM #1
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My girlfriend asked if she could have a girlfriend?
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11-07-13, 08:01 AM #2
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Have fun sitting at home while your Gf and her Gf go out and have fun !!
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11-07-13, 08:31 AM #3
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im confused
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11-07-13, 08:41 AM #4
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I know!
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11-07-13, 08:43 AM #5
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Re: My girlfriend asked if she could have a girlfriend?
I wouldn't alow that. It's the same thing that she's cheating on you..
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11-07-13, 08:45 AM #6
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Realise that one man will never be enough for her and go find yourself a different girlfriend. If she's this antsy for someone else this early on, the relationship is doomed anyway. Originally Posted by luke2426rich
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.
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11-07-13, 08:57 AM #7
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bi people are usually not monoagamous. id never date one as id never trust them.. tell her to find a bi bf and go find yourself a straight girl
unless you want an open reationship? ask can you have another gf too"Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".
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i dont have a problem with her having sex with a girl, its the feat i will be number 2
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11-07-13, 09:14 AM #9
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you will be number two. your gonna be sharing her. you cant be no 1 if theres a third party. it aint 50/50.. i find it odd that any man would wana share a woman he loves with anyone -man or woman. to me men are supposed to be possessive in these circumstances
"Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".
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if its a sexual thing i dont care. Originally Posted by michelle23
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11-07-13, 09:27 AM #11
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but what if i say im not ok with it and she dumps me for her. if there is a girl..or shes just wondering
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doormat.. your willing to do anything just to hold onto her *sigh* plus sex brings confusion, feelings, love.. its just nature so if she is sleeping with the same girl regularly it wont just be sex.
"Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".
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11-07-13, 09:51 AM #13
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Originally Posted by michelle23
oh am not.....this is just a weird situation
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11-07-13, 09:53 AM #14
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You might end up being number 2. What I would suggest is to have some fun with this. Maybe you can join in because she just going to do what she want to do anyway or either still have thoughts about another girl, wishing she could have one. In the meantime, be tying to find a chic that only wants to be with you and you don't have to share with anybody. Win/win situation for you if you know what you're doing.
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So what is it you want here? Reassurance that it's all going to be ok?
Sorry buddy, it ain't.
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