Alright, so I'm on a dating website, and this guy and I had awesome conversation pretty much ALL day on the 1st. We talked a little bit more through out the week but not as much. Then on Wednesday night he drops a bomb shell on me...he is moving to Korea and isn't looking to start anything of course because he leaves at the end of month. Immediately, I start laughing, and I am like "This dude only wants sex and is making all of this up." and he then proceeds to ask me when or if I would still like to keep talking to him and if I want to go out. I said "Okay, Friday we can hang out." Because I knew what he was looking for, I said "WTH! I'll get some dinner and drinks out of this loser and call it a day for him." Also let's NOT forget to mention that I have a child and he put on his page that he would only use a woman with a kid for sex and I saw he was registered on some NSA sites as well(Google is your friend...use it). My friends encouraged me to go out and have fun and of course knowing what I knew of him to not take him seriously at all, so I went.
The date was the POLAR opposite. Here I was waiting ALL night(with eager anticipation) to completely reject him and his advances. He was very gentle and sweet to me. We completely clicked, laughed, and talked all night and it was completely comfortable. We danced and got pretty wasted together. When we were on the date, he just blurts out, "I really like you." and I was like "I like you too and it sucks that you are leaving." and he said "I would meet you when I am leaving which really sucks" and I said "Well, why are you on a dating website if you are about to leave anyway?" and I really don't remember his answer but I do remember him saying he was a picky dater and that he had to be attracted and really like someone to want to go out with them; he said he had only been on two dates from that website prior to our meeting. I took it for what it was worth and said "Okay"
We took a taxi back to his house since we had both been drinking, and he had a spare room in his house and told me that he thought I should stay and not drive since I had been drinking. He went upstairs to go to his room and I just remember asking him to stay with me because I felt really sick and didn't want to be alone. We slept in the bed without so much as touching one another. I got up the next morning and he walked me to my car and gave me a hug and he texted me a while later to make sure I made it home alright. But we haven't talked that much since yesterday around noon. : (
That was the best date I have ever been on with the person that I least expected to even actually like. Considering his expressed views on single moms and his NSA memberships...lmbo, I am seriously wondering why he didn't try me at all or anything.