So about a week ago, my boyfriend finally got a job after over a year of looking. For it, he had to shave his beard. We've been dating a little over a year, and the beard has really grown on me. I played with it all the time. I was also very supportive of him while he was unemployed, and listened to many nights of him feeling depressed. I also did some other stuff to help him advertise himself.
But as soon as he got the job, he acted like it was all him. And he shaved his beard, which he knows I loved, with no warning at all. I feel like he wants me to be around for all this support, then the moment he has success, he doesn't think of me at all. I have not been physical with him at all since he got the job, and I don't know what to say, because obviously getting mad over a beard is shallow and stupid.
He finally got fed up and yelled at me today. We haven't been sleeping together, and if I don't do anything, I probably won't see him for days, which a part of me is fine with. He's too much sometimes.
How should I approach this?