Vaca w/o the other half?

[lostone8]

Would you let your other half go on vacation without you?

I won a trip, filled out his info for my guest, and his background didn't pass. They offered me a chance to take someone else, so I wouldn't have to do it solo.
I decided it would be the best and less..messy if I took my sister. Not a girl friend or a guy friend, just my sister.
Well needless to say, this was not okay with him. To him, I should have forfeited the trip. It is selfish for me to go and leave him here by himself.
He has told me that he may not be here when I get back.

Is it usual for adults to go on girls trips or guys trips?

To me it always was. To him it isn't right, for some reason. He says that people don't do that sort of thing.
I have gone back and forth for months on weather what I am doing is right or not...
Decided to finally get an opinion. Please let me know what you honestly think.
Also it is only 3 days!
Thanks!

[VincenzoG91]

His background didn't pass? Is he a terrorist?

He sounds very selfish. If he really cared about you, he wouldn't mind you enjoying a nice vacation even if he didn't get to go.

[lostone8]

It was just a bad check. To be eligible to go you couldn't have any misdemeanors or felonies.